Trouble Getting Into Little Space?

[fragilekitty]

Hi! I'm a little with anxiety, and recently I've been having trouble getting myself into full little space. My Daddy and I have been together for 2 months, and the whole DD/lg thing is new to him, so I figured I'd introduce it slowly.

It started out pretty well, but now I'm scared to go any further into little space. I'd love to have my own paci, be dressed by my Daddy, and babble incoherently without a care. I honestly have no idea how my Daddy would react to that, and my anxiety is getting the best of me and saying that he wouldn't like it or would think that it's "too much".

One time we were getting out of bed and I asked him to dress me, and he originally said no but finally caved in.

I'm so scared to bring up this topic with him because I'm afraid he might tell me that he's not really into DD/lg or that I should grow up more.

I love DD/lg because it lets me temporarily escape the real world and my anxiety, but recently I've just been being eaten up by the whole situation. Any suggestions or tips would be greatly appreciated ❤

[Komorebi]

how much does he already know? it might be a good idea to have him make an account here, this is a pretty good place to learn and ask questions.

He can't know something is bothering you(or know what it is) unless you tell him. 

[Spring~Faerie]

Communication is key ~cliché, I know, but true. Try to get him more informed about DDlg. He may be weirded or creeped out because he doesn't understand how important it is to you.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

I'm going to have to nod to what people have said above.

 

It breaks my heart that you are scared to talk to your partner, but I also totally feel that. As it's been said above, it can be nerve-wracking talking about your interests and desires, especially ones that are seen as taboo or weird. But you've got to try to be open and honest with him. He should know how you feel and what you want, even if it's scary! Try showing him some articles that have suggestions on how to be a Caregiver, or ways to get into Little space. Tell him what you like about the dynamic and what interests you.

 

It's scary to be true to ourselves, but if we don't, you'll be living a stifled life. I want that for no one. <3