Littles and miscarriages

[Lizychu]

I'm a little and I love being little! I loves my paci, sippy, blankie, stuffies, onesies, and especially my daddy! But I found out I was pregnant, about 5 or 6 weeks. I also found out I lost the baby the same day... I don't know what to do, I can have my paci or my sippy, they make me sad and cry. I want to be little but I feel almost guilty for being little and acting the way I do and I don't know why! Has anyone else ever gone through this? Can anyone help me or give me advice? Edited June 14, 2016 by Lizychu

[Harley_Quinn]

I've had three. Twice with daddy and once after I was sexually assaulted.

 

It's difficult sometimes for me to be in little space. Especially when all I can do is think about one in particular that miscarried at 24 weeks because I knew gender and everything. But sometimes being little helps me get through it too.

 

Idk I know it's not much help but you're not alone. If you wanna talk you can add me and message me if you'd like

[Guest BugBug]

Hey im so sorry to hear this. I cant give you advice as I havent had a miscarriage but I can just say that if you need anyone to talk your very welcome.I had a terrible experience with nearly losing my son. I know its not the same, just saying im around if needs be.

Theres a few phonelines you can ring for advice and support depending on where you are from.

Hugs

[littlelili]

I'm very sorry. I have not experienced that but if you want to talk a bit count on me!!

Be strong!!

:hugs:

[Guest ♥ Lee ♥]

I had a miscarriage a little over a month ago. It was the hardest thing ever.

I just hid all my little things. I couldn't touch a paci for a month.  Going into little space wasn't impossible without all my little space stuff it was just a lot harder. For me I needed to grieve as an adult before I could go into little space but that's just me.

Try having your Daddy be the main focus to be in little space. Ask him to pamper you with hugs and kisses and cuddles. 

 

But I'm here for you if you need anyone to talk to!

[LilPrincessSami]

I miscarried back in April and I still have a hard time going into littlespace without thinking about it. I cannot pick up a coloring book or my DS to play Animal Crossing because it makes me feel guilty. I feel guilty for my own body not being able to hold another life within, and because I feel that my little should not exist knowing I could have been a mother. Eventually the guilt will dull down and you will feel a little better, just give yourself time to cope. It's hard dealing with loss. I jumped from being a little to being a middle after I miscarried.