have my boyfriend and I assumed the roles of ddlg & not officially recognized it?

[Guest tnmamp]

Sorry if this is posted in the wrong place, I'm new to the site & researched this topic, but wasn't able to find answers. I feel like I've always known I was a little in relationships and my current relationship I'm in has been going on for a few months but we have known each other and been close for much longer. It is a very healthy, loving & trusting relationship. My boyfriend and I do quite a few things that could be considered part of a ddlg relationship, but I'm not sure if he's familiar with the lifestyle or would even want to be. Some examples of ddlg behavior in our relationship is he refers to himself as daddy & I call him daddy as well. He also refers to me as his little girl and often coos at me saying things like awww poor little girl (not in a mean way of course.) Sometimes in the bedroom when he wants sucked off he'll say "you need your binky." Once I was joking with him and asked what he would do if I wet the bed and he said he'd get me pull ups (though I honestly don't feel he would.) This is all something very private to me and I don't know how to subtly hint to him how much I really do like to be treated like a little. These aren't things we do all the time but he does refer to himself as daddy and call me a little girl quite often. So do you think this sounds like a ddlg relationship? If not how could I very subtly let him know that I do enjoy being babied once in a while without freiking him out or pushing him away?

[RicardosBabygirl]

I would just ask him if he has heard of DDlg or anything related to D/s relationships. To be honest, he sounds really into DDlg naturally even if he hasn't heard about it. If anything, it would help you all grow as a couple if you talk about intimate thoughts such as this. Just communicate to him!! Everything should come out naturally, you all sound really comfortable with each other.

 

Much love,

A