Am I a Little?

[LittlePrincessDove]

I have mixed feelings honestly about this whole topic.

 

Let me start off by saying my brother and his gf are both i to daddy dom/little/pet play stuff. I honestly find it weird sometimes and get uncomfortable when they make out in public and infront of me.

 

I am also not a very sexual person. The idea of sex kinda scares me.

 

Now here is a bit about me.

-I am a child at heart. I like toys, stuffed animals, etc.

-I've always wanted to be a princess

-I don't want too many adult responsibilities but I don't want to feel like I can't make my own desicions.

-that being said if I were to have a "daddy" I wouldn't want too many rules especially without my say in it.

-I act a lot like a kid sometimes. Although I really like alternative things like scene kids and emos.

 

 

So... what am I? I'm really confused. Can I be a little but still be emo/scene? How does little stuff work?

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

There is no definite mould for being little. You are what you feel

[Johnny Hammersticks]

You are as unique as a snowflake. Dont try to label yourself. Celebrate and embrace your diversity, you can absolutly like creepy pasta and screamo music and still be a little. If you like those things and still wanna chew a paci and call your boyfriend Daddy and let him give you guidelines to follow, then thats totally up to you. And thats the beauty of all these things, the freedom to express yourself how you choose.

 

Follow your heart, and explore all your interests. The better you know yourself, the more youre able to surround yourself with people who lift you up, and the happier you will be in the long run.

[snuggleprincess]

I think a lot of people say that labels don't matter, in order to ease other people's anxiety about discovering themselves.  However,I think that in this case, LittlePrincessDove just wants some guidance, not an ultimate label to be set in stone.

 

First of all, you don't have to be sexual in order to engage in age play. 

 

And it sounds like you enjoy being Little while you're solo. The question is do you like it with a Caregiver?  That's up to you to explore and figure out.  It is ultimately up to you how your caregiver treats you.  For example, if you know you want rules but simply can't tolerate certain ones, you can come up with the list together.  They're called Daddy Doms, not Daddy Dictators.  Or maybe you just enjoy playing a slightly older aged Little,like a Middle, who would have a bit more say in things.

[DDevilRuSS]

You are as unique as a snowflake. Dont try to label yourself. Celebrate and embrace your diversity,..... and thats the beauty of all these things, the freedom to express yourself how you choose.

Follow your heart, and explore all your interests. The better you know yourself, the more youre able to surround yourself with people who lift you up, and the happier you will be in the long run.

 

I couldn't have said it better myself! You are unique just as every other individual is. Exploring the DD/lg lifestyle is about exploring one aspect of yourself and doing so safely.

 

I'm an enigma myself. I was goth in high school, but I transcended above labels of such. You are you, and only as long as you are true to yourself, then you shall find yourself. It's natural for some to be scared of sex or disgusted by other's displays of affection and such. You can like certain aspects of being a little while not adhering to other aspects.