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I think that may just be the little's play room for when they're in little space. I wouldn't dream of not sharing a room with my princess. That would be awful in my opinion.

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I think that may just be the little's play room for when they're in little space. I wouldn't dream of not sharing a room with my princess. That would be awful in my opinion.

Guest LavanderRabbit
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I've talked to my DD about this and really the concept wouldn't be my own room. I don't think it's terribly common unless you can afford to have another room. (Seriously a two bed in LA is like $2000 a month) I have talked to him about having an Office/playroom just to have my own space to store toys and have a place to color and the like, but it would also be a shared space. Please remember tumblr has a lot of misinformation and it's possible the rooms aren't even theirs!
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I have to agree with everyone else. It more likely for there little space. Tho I've known people in serious relationship that do sleep in separate rooms. So maybe.
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Guest QueenJellybean
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I feel like I always bring the token polyamorous perspective here, so forgive me if it's not wanted, but it's what I know!

 

Recently at a munch, another poly Little shared with me that she and her partner (who live together) have separate rooms because it makes the most sense to them having multiple partners. That way, when one of them has a partner staying overnight, the other one isn't scrambling to find a place to sleep in their own house. It also provides the opportunity for space, and giving themselves a "room of their own" (To quote Virginia Woolf.)

 

But they usually slept together in one or the other's room each night. ;P

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Me and daddy share our room. He says when we move into a bigger place I can I have a play room and have whatever toys and stuff I want! Even outfits :)
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Guest aphroditelaughs
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Old thread, bringing it back cuz it's interesting.

 

Anyway, we share a room. I might enjoy having a separate bedroom though - not because of little stuff, just because we have wildly different tastes and I *need* to be alone sometimes. But at the same time I don't think we could/would sleep apart. I'd probably wander into his room in the middle of the night, so we'd be right back to sharing a room.

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We share a room but we are working on getting my own Little Play room set up so I can have naps and play and do cute stuff:D
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Papa and I live far away from each other, so we have our own rooms.  When he stays with me, we sleep in separate beds, but when I stay with him we share a bed.  I still live with my parents and they don't like us sharing a bed, so since we're under their roof, we respect that.

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My Princess sleeps with Daddy, when he can spend the night. We are in the stages of discussing moving in together. I would like to convert a bedroom into a Nursery/Play Room for her, and even save up for a custom crib for her. It would at least be fun for when she needs a nap. I think she'd still prefer Daddy's bed for big sleeps though.
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I live in a 1 bedroom with Daddy but if we had a two bedroom home, there is no way either of us could stand sleeping in separate rooms.  :blush:

Guest Just A Mentor
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I have always lived in places with a minimum of 2 bedrooms. Once a live-in relationship has been established, I always give the choice of where my lg (or sub) would like to sleep. Usually, it starts out with them having their own room, but as things progress in the relationship, we usually end up sharing a bed.

They will use the extra bedroom as a "playroom" or I will use it as a place to time out in. But overall, after a couple weeks, it really only becomes a place to store things.

Guest SUeB
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Lol if we shared a home, you bet your life we'd share a bed! He's my lover, partner and boyfriend as well as my Daddy and my Master. It would be utterly insane to us to have separate rooms.
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Hmmmm... We right now live in a studio type place, but once we move I'm gonna turn the second bedroom into a studio/nursery because I work from home so I need a studio, and she loves to lounge and be lazy after work so a nursery would be comfy enough for both of us? I dunno, we both love to have our own space, and even though we're clingy AF we also get fed up of not being able to be by ourselves... So there defo will be a nursery somewhere in the future. XP

Guest DuckDaddy66
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Years ago in my first apartment after I got divorced, I had a reading room.  The idea was a small room filled with book shelves, bean bag chairs, pillows, stuffies, and plushies.  I would just go into that room and chill and read.  I am an addicted reader. 

 

Fast Forward to today!

I explained the concept of the reading room to my little before I was a Daddy and she a little (we are still new at this) and now we know this room will be our space for her to be little me a Daddy. It will be shared space, so we can both read, cuddle, hang out, and relax.  One of the rules for the room will be no rough play or even sexual play. So once we are together and buy/build our house together, we will have that shared reading room.  :heart:

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Daddy and I just got a new house and I AM GETTING MY OWN LITTLE ROOM!

 

Daddy is going to have a say over most of the stuff in our bedroom, that will be more his room. But I get an entire room to my little self!!!

 

AND WE JUST PICKED OUT THE FURNITURE FOR IT!

 

Screenshot 2018 08 28 At 4.21.47 PM

 
....sorry, I am super excited as we are picking the furniture up in 4 days! :lol:
 
But Daddy and I always wanted me to have a little room. We want a TPE of the DDlg dynamic, D/s dynamic, and the Pet/Owner dynamic. That requires a lot of props or equipment (at least how we want to do it) and thus having my own little room was a great idea. It does also play into the dynamic; Daddy comes into the room to check on his little as she is coloring. 
 
It also gives me my own sanctuary. It is hard to express my little side for many reasons. Daddy and I both believe by me having my own room I will grow more confident and comfy because it will be my "safe space" (I hate that phrase...) to nurture my little side. But we sleep in the same bed, in the same room and always snuggled up. Just because I have a little room doesn't mean the master bedroom isn't my room either, nor does it stop me from staying in it.
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me and my daddy are long distance but when we live together i'd want my own room that daddy would sleep in too just so i could have the separate little space
Guest Swadloon
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I would looove my own room for littlespace someday, but Daddy and I are both poor grad students in a teeny apartment, so...

 

I couldn’t imagine not sleeping in the same room as Daddy though, we were together for seven years before even discovering CG/l! It would be so strange not to have him there next to me!

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If I was living with someone I would want to share a room with them. But... that being said I've had partners who snore and kick and drape their too hot bodies over me and make me all uncomfy... so somewhere to escape to if I had something super important on would be nice. But since I'm not a little my room would be set up as a dungeon lol. And it would have a huge four poster bed in it that I could use for sleeping should I need the escape :p 

Guest Bunnyblossom
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UPDATE: I HAVE MY OWN LITTLE ROOM NOW OAO

My DD helped me clear out our storage room and I turned it into a bootiful room full of mess. ^-^

I'll take pics when I cbf'd tidying it up to make it instagram lvl of clean. 

But for now I'm just super mega lazy, livin' in my own filths. \(^-^)/

 

 

 

 

And I'm post-stalking Arc ^-^ :heart: hey bb 

 

 

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v703/Cattrick/AwkwardFlirt_zpsb79be252.jpg

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Daddy and I have seperate rooms but we usually end up sleeping in his ^-^ I have plans to convert mine into something more littlespace-friendly!

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