Guest Little_Miss Posted June 13, 2016 Report Posted June 13, 2016 Kind of tend to think I'll never be close to someone or find someone to have a meaningful relationship with after having too many bad experiences. Just wondering if any other littles feel like this sometimes? 2
Dumbledork'sPrincess Posted June 13, 2016 Report Posted June 13, 2016 I don't, but I know my Daddy did before he met me. He had gates so high to stop him from getting hurt again. Apparently I just walked straight through them :3
Guest glitter bunny Posted June 13, 2016 Report Posted June 13, 2016 yes!! I've been thinking about this every single day for a while now. its something i crave but, like yourself, keep running into awful people and terrible situations. I really believe that i was meant to be alone.
Little_Kitt Posted June 13, 2016 Report Posted June 13, 2016 I feel like I'll be alone for a while. I have young children so I can't get out much. I have a long distance Daddy but he's in an open relationship and I realize that our relationship will never go anywhere. Feeling little is a new experience for me and while I'm really enjoying it, it's lonely not having a Daddy there to cuddle with.
LittleLaylaLou14 Posted June 13, 2016 Report Posted June 13, 2016 I feel the same, don't worry. I feel like I've had so many bad experiences, a good pone won't come along. It is definitely something I crave but I don't seem to be getting anywhere
LittleLaylaLou14 Posted June 13, 2016 Report Posted June 13, 2016 I feel the same, don't worry. I feel like I've had so many bad experiences, a good pone won't come along. It is definitely something I crave but I don't seem to be getting anywhere 1
Guest Purple_Panda Posted June 13, 2016 Report Posted June 13, 2016 I know the feeling, sometimes its better to be alone, although I would like to meet someone... relationships are bloody scary lol XD
DaddySkellington Posted June 13, 2016 Report Posted June 13, 2016 Every second of every day I feel like i will be single for life. It has been so long since i have had a littles touch. Life without a little is like being a colorless rainbow. Its maddening at times. I want a local little so bad but seems nearly impossible anymore like an unattainable dream as well as a nightmare for my heart....... i want to love a little so much
SharBear Posted June 13, 2016 Report Posted June 13, 2016 This is something I think of way too often. Will the perfect one ever find me? Though I get scared of being in a relationship that's totally permanent and forever. Even if that's what I want. I did decide to stop chasing after guys, causes too much heart ache. So I mostly concentrate on myself and the things I need to do that are really important to keep my mind off it. Hopefully I won't be forever alone.
Jessmont Posted June 13, 2016 Report Posted June 13, 2016 (edited) Oh I can relate to you :c never had a significant relationship with someone and there are times you feel alone and start thinking about it. But I really hope that changes for you soon c: Edited June 13, 2016 by Jessmont
A&Ω Posted June 16, 2016 Report Posted June 16, 2016 I'm going to throw in something to the contrary. I'm going to help stop the trend here... Love. Yourself. First. 3 words that fit in the locket of Love like a precision key. When you love yourself.. I mean respect yourself, treat your body how it wants to be treated, have compassiin for yourself, forgiveness and other healthy self esteem building attributes. The people that will be attracted to you will astound you. You'll have some much confidence that other will just do anything to know what secret you're sitting on. Happiness doesn't happen outside of you. BEING happy makes everything around you happier. If anyone wants more description just hit me up. I just thought I would cut the blame train and offer the first tool in getting what you want out of life. 2
MadameButterfly Posted June 16, 2016 Report Posted June 16, 2016 This was me before I met my daddy. I had two terrible experiences with other "daddies". For as long as I could remember, I always thought I would be alone, and I was never good enough for any man to want me. But my perfect, daddy came along and swept me off my feet. He's my everything and I love him so much. Don't give hope of meeting the perfect someone. They're out there, and you just have to be patient. You could meet that perfect match for you in a year or tomorrow...just be careful and open for them to sweep you off your feet.
KayBaby♥ Posted June 17, 2016 Report Posted June 17, 2016 I feel like this but mainly because I dont put myself out there. I've just come to terms with it, even with the pressure from my friends and family to start dating.
Guest Zips Posted June 17, 2016 Report Posted June 17, 2016 I don't, but I know my Daddy did before he met me. He had gates so high to stop him from getting hurt again. Apparently I just walked straight through them :3 This is what happens when you meet the right person. There's someone out there for all of us, fret not.
Guest Little_Miss Posted June 18, 2016 Report Posted June 18, 2016 (edited) I don't, but I know my Daddy did before he met me. He had gates so high to stop him from getting hurt again. Apparently I just walked straight through them :3 It's good how you cared enough to try and walk through them as long as your partner is happy too haha Edited June 18, 2016 by Little_Miss
Guest Little_Miss Posted June 18, 2016 Report Posted June 18, 2016 This is something I think of way too often. Will the perfect one ever find me? Though I get scared of being in a relationship that's totally permanent and forever. Even if that's what I want. I did decide to stop chasing after guys, causes too much heart ache. So I mostly concentrate on myself and the things I need to do that are really important to keep my mind off it. Hopefully I won't be forever alone. I'm trying to have some time to myself as well and feel more content while single. Then once I feel better it might be easier to make new and good connections with people... maybe. But yeah I crave that kind of closeness too but feel a bit gross about the actuality of it too.. maybe a little scared too I think it can be natural to be in two minds about something when it makes us uncomfortable. Good to know others feel like that Hah
Guest Little_Miss Posted June 18, 2016 Report Posted June 18, 2016 @madamebutterfly that's tough but imma try :3
Guest Little_Miss Posted June 18, 2016 Report Posted June 18, 2016 @kaybaby It's hard to put yourself out there. I think it's easier if you take it slow and take breaks but maybe jumping in quickly would work for you when just getting to go on a date. different for everyone i guess.
Guest Little_Miss Posted June 18, 2016 Report Posted June 18, 2016 I'm going to throw in something to the contrary. I'm going to help stop the trend here... Love. Yourself. First. 3 words that fit in the locket of Love like a precision key. When you love yourself.. I mean respect yourself, treat your body how it wants to be treated, have compassiin for yourself, forgiveness and other healthy self esteem building attributes. The people that will be attracted to you will astound you. You'll have some much confidence that other will just do anything to know what secret you're sitting on. Happiness doesn't happen outside of you. BEING happy makes everything around you happier. If anyone wants more description just hit me up. I just thought I would cut the blame train and offer the first tool in getting what you want out of life. I never said not to love yourself and I believe even people who have self esteem issues and self destructive behaviour patterns etc still deserve meaningful friendships and relationships. Sounds like you're the one blaming people for having bad experiences because they have low self esteem? I don't agree with that if so.
daddyslilpeach Posted June 18, 2016 Report Posted June 18, 2016 I thought this until I met Daddy, and I'm pretty sure Daddy thought he'd never meet anyone he cared about this much and actually enjoyed talking to again. Love just happens, but you have to let down your guards first. <3
Guest Little_Miss Posted June 18, 2016 Report Posted June 18, 2016 @ everyone else who commented. Least we're not alone with these feelings..
Guest ScarletBlue Posted June 18, 2016 Report Posted June 18, 2016 I always felt like i am going to be alone. I thought if i lose some weight guys would like me more. Or if i was willing to have sex guys would like me more. But im not going to change myself for a two second fling. Sadly i have pages in my notebook of "stories of the lonely little" its just what i picture my daddy and i would do when in truth im just sitting somewhere alone wishing what i was writing was true. I never been the girl that a guy liked. If a guy liked me he never did anything about it. So here i am. All Alone
Guest Little_Miss Posted June 23, 2016 Report Posted June 23, 2016 I always felt like i am going to be alone. I thought if i lose some weight guys would like me more. Or if i was willing to have sex guys would like me more. But im not going to change myself for a two second fling. Sadly i have pages in my notebook of "stories of the lonely little" its just what i picture my daddy and i would do when in truth im just sitting somewhere alone wishing what i was writing was true. I never been the girl that a guy liked. If a guy liked me he never did anything about it. So here i am. All Alone Though it is easier said then done I think we should be ourselves no matter what. Knowing the real you would make a relationship nicer I imagine. A relationship built on lies is no real fun. You can still strive to be the best you can be and it's okay to dream of a future daddy :3 It's also okay to initiate things with someone. you don't always have to wait for the other person to pursue you first. Anyhow just thought I should offer my thoughts to your comment.
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