Littles that smoke.

[PeachyPantsu]

Okay so I have a really big question..

Is it okay for a little to smoke cigarettes or weed? Like.. I don't know. I know that some people have rules against it but I'm the type that kind of uses these things to get through the week.

So for me it's really annoying when I'm told I have to stop.

I understand you're trying to help me but I will probably snap on someone at my job if I don't have a cigarette. And weed kind of makes my social anxiety go away (even though it's only an occasional thing).

 

So I just want to know other people's opinions on it. Like am I being selfish for not wanting to quit or change that part of my life or is it normal? I don't even know.

[Johnny Hammersticks]

I would never give my little a rule against those things, as i do both. She dosent smoke cigarettes, but if she asks permission to have weed or alcohol, i make her be big for that whole day. Call her by her first name, instead of her baby name, and i wont baby her. Lol... ohh she LOVES that. *Sarcasm font*

[DaddySkellington]

I live in Colorado so needless to say weed usually comes with the territory of any relationship be it a DDLG one or any other. As far as ciggs, i would never have a little that smoked ciggs. Personally i think it is a disgusting habit and a HUGE turnoff.

[daddyslilpeach]

You can be little even if you mainline heroin into your eyeballs every day

 

Daddy and I both smoke cigarettes and weed. I kinda get pissed off when people talk about how much of a turnoff it is. I'm not going to stop because people seem to really demonise smokers nowadays.

Just do what you do  

Don't change for anyone. It's not affecting anyone but the actual smoker. 

 

 

 

Just a little pro hint in general by the way, for everyone reading, smokers do not really give a shit if it turns you off. If you don't like smokers, don't court one. This is why I only date fellow smokers. Coffee and ciggie breath every day, bitches.

Edited June 12, 2016 by daddyslilpeach

[PeachyPantsu]

^ I freaking love your comment lol

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

Personally I don't smoke cigarettes, but my DD does when he is stressed out and I don't really care. I've never thought of it as something littles weren't allowed to do. I suppose if you have rules on it that can apply, but a lot of people smoke.

[Guest Dean]

I don't smoke or drink. Never have. Never will. That is MY choice. If you smoke (cigarettes, weed, or anything else), that is YOUR choice whether you are a little or not. After all, littles are still adults and can make adult choices. If a Daddy doesn't want you to smoke, you should know why. If it is because they don't personally like smoking, then it is about them. If it is because they want you to be healthy, then it is about you. But, just like anything a Daddy tells you, the choice is really always yours.

 

Personally, I would prefer being with someone who doesn't smoke. However, if everything else is great, it can be overlooked and negotiated. The "just don't do it around me" compromise is a great way to address it. Now, if you smoke 2 to 3 packs a day, I would ask you to cut it down for serious health reasons. Again, it would be your choice.

[PeachyPantsu]

See the issue is I'd get to talking to people about possibly working on a relationship and then I'd tell them I smoked and they would be all "ew no stop" like.. do you want me to snap and kill everyone at my job? Lol

[Guest Dean]

That reaction is all about them. They aren't trying to understand why you smoke. Your reasoning isn't arbitrary. Let's say that you don't like coffee, can't even stand the smell of it. You're talking to a Daddy that drinks coffee daily. You have a reaction to it that is maybe a little more polite than "ew no stop" but still gets the point across. They tell you that they absolutely can't function without it. They will snap at everyone. I have known a lot of people that are that way and I don't drink or even like the smell of coffee. That Daddy will expect you to understand this thing about him and accept it. You should expect no less from a Daddy. 

 

We all are evolving and changing all the time. Six months from now you might not smoke or you could be smoking 5 years from now. Life changes and we often change with it. A Daddy honestly trying to build a relationship with you should be looking to the future. And decide what is important and what isn't. If they still can't get past it, then find someone else. 

[daddyslilpeach]

From my experience, when you're in love, things you find weird or gross about someone just melt away.

 

For example my Daddy is very 'dad ish' about his farts and poops. Loud and proud. I used to get a little grossed out at first, but now we openly talk about our poops and farts and have a 'poop report'. Oh, and he cut his hair really badly a few weeks ago and I called it the 'tard haircut'. I felt weird looking at him but after a while I got used to it. It's not exactly the same thing but when you get so close to someone and become so in love with them, you don't really care :3 

[Komorebi]

personally I would rather not be with someone who smokes or does drugs, it is bad for your health and will kill you in a most unpleasant way. But that is me. I have seen my great uncle who had to carry oxygen around with him, and he died before he could get a lung transplant and he was one of the lucky ones. 

 

Again this is merely my thoughts, I think it is fairly selfish of you to not want to try to quit. it is like saying I don't care about myself and I don't care about what I put you through. You are old enough to know that poisoning yourself is not a good life choice. 

[PincessCaitlin]

I don't smoke. Smoking bad for lungs. Shortens life. Me no likey. Plus i's have asthma so... Would kinda be hard for me to smoke.

[snuggleprincess]

A Daddy is meant to set rules for you, but you have to find a Daddy who will set rules for you that are ultimately what you want for yourself anyway  I.e.,if you wanted to stop smoking, he would help you do that.

[Dad'saCookin]

A Daddy is meant to set rules for you, but you have to find a Daddy who will set rules for you that are ultimately what you want for yourself anyway  I.e.,if you wanted to stop smoking, he would help you do that.

I think this is beautifully said. Short and simple. I have my own opinions on but if that didn't meld with my little then it probably wouldn't work out in the long run.

[PeachyPantsu]

The thing is, I can understand rules like "only two a day" or stuff like that. (I dont smoke that much but you know for example) but some are like off the bat wanting me to comply to their rules. ?? Like??? I just met you????

[Guest Dean]

First, snuggleprincess is exactly right. 

 

Second, this is one of my pet peeves (there should be a better term for that): Daddies, Doms, Masters, whatever they want to call themselves, who think that they can start demanding things without establishing a relationship. I may piss off some people here, but too bad. Bottom line: if you have not established a relationship/dynamic, you have no right to demand anything. Not them following your rules, not them calling you Daddy/Sir/Master, not them sending you nudes, and not sex. You may be a Daddy and they may be a little, but you are not their Daddy and they are not your little. If you feel you need to demand, then you need to rethink a few things. Being a Daddy (Dom, etc.) should be who you are and not how you express it. Having a little (sub, etc.) is being in a relationship in which they are a part. Get to know the person you are talking to, establish a relationship, then you can establish rules based on the relationship and the person you are in the relationship with. This is DD/lg. It's not all about you.

 

End of rant. We not return to the regularly scheduled topic.

[PeachyPantsu]

Well said, Dean. It's also kind of annoying how some people message you like "hello princess" NO I'M NOT YOUR PRINCESS 

[TheMatador]

I smoke, but I don't smoke Marijuana, or Drink. It's all due to personal reasons, and I choose not too. I don't really have a problem with others doing it, I tend to just shy away from those that are though. 

[Ryan C.]

I don't smoke or drink. Never have. Never will. That is MY choice. If you smoke (cigarettes, weed, or anything else), that is YOUR choice whether you are a little or not. After all, littles are still adults and can make adult choices. If a Daddy doesn't want you to smoke, you should know why. If it is because they don't personally like smoking, then it is about them. If it is because they want you to be healthy, then it is about you. But, just like anything a Daddy tells you, the choice is really always yours.

 

Personally, I would prefer being with someone who doesn't smoke. However, if everything else is great, it can be overlooked and negotiated. The "just don't do it around me" compromise is a great way to address it. Now, if you smoke 2 to 3 packs a day, I would ask you to cut it down for serious health reasons. Again, it would be your choice.

 

Pretty much how I feel on smoking too.

Edited June 14, 2016 by Ryan C.

[JaCk-RaBbit♡]

Me and my daddy both smoke weed and cigs.  He never has told me to stop but to cut back alittle.  Theres nothing wrong with it and alot of my little friends smoke weed.  in the "taboo" area of sex there is alot of drugs be it weed or lucy or molly list goes on.  just be safe and use safely and dont do any icky drugs

[papa'skitten]

me and my daddy smoke everyday but he wants to quit ciggs(hes only started about a year ago) which i think is silly for starting so old.... ive been smoking since i was 12(i know) ill help him quit and ill cut back but we see no prob with it and its one of my top ten fav times sitting with my legs on his lap in the back yard smoking,staring at the sky but at the same time ive dated people who dont smoke and i tried to not smoke around them... its all about give and take

[Guest NeedToServe]

If a man meets a girl that smokes, he has no right to demand she stop or to badger her about it. He accepted that about her before getting involved. Sure, if she asks for his help to quit, then he can put rules in place I guess. But it's an addiction. All the warnings and spankings in the world won't stop it.

A little is a human being, no better, worse or different than anyone else. That comes with bad habits too.

[Princess Joe Joe]

Well, I don't have anything against people who smoke cigarettes and I have plenty of friends who smoke cigarettes. I nor my Papa smoke cigarettes, but we LOVE to have a blunt or a bowl when we are together! I simply don't smoke cigarettes because for some reason they give me a bad headache, and He just doesn't favor the taste. ❤️

 

Personally I feel like people assume that littles are supposed to be these dainty, doe-eyed little things 24/7 which simply isn't true. I have tried a plethora of soft core drugs (weed, LSD, ect) and I drink on the weekends. I am lucky enough to have a Papa that accepts that! None of that stuff makes me bad company, and none of that stuff makes me any less of a woman or a baby (: Anyone you tells you that those things make you not little/ lady like they can go screw off.

[papa'skitten]

Daddy's best baby doll and daddy dreamer,you dolls are awesome and i couldnt agree more with what you guys both said.... just because someone does something they enjoy  that others might see as wrong doesnt make them a bad person!!!

[sirenaophelia]

I smoke cigarettes and weed. But have been, for Daddy's sake, not smoking weed. I drink occasionally but cigarettes regularly. Too much even.

 

Daddy smokes cigarettes and drinks occasionally. He hasn't made any comments or rules about it but he does try to get me to smoke less. I need to ... like NEED. But I'm a cranky girl when I don't have smokes. I get terrible nic fits... I don't know what to do with myself... my anxiety just shoots up...

 

Which if I could have weed all day every day I would PROBABLY be able to quit cigarettes. But I dunno. I'm not rich. I'm on fixed income. I can't afford a lot heh...

 

I don't think it's something to be a huge issue...