Too old to be little?

[Guest Embers]

I don't know if any other littles feel this way, but sometimes I feel so out of place. I know I'm a little/sub, but finding a daddy that is around my own age that isn't just about sexual role play has become impossible. Sometimes I feel it's me, like, maybe I'm just too old and the only littles desired are under 30. I don't know, maybe I'm being whiny. Just wondering if I'm alone.... Edited June 10, 2016 by Embers

[Guest DaddyMN]

Never too old. I think it's just that.. that generation and above just heavily frowned on what DDLG is and so you'd have a harder time finding people that are into it, or rather, would openly admit to being open to it.

[Princess-P]

If your searching for a Daddy how are you going about it? Are you using online dating sites? Fetlife? Going to munches? Have you completely ruled out a vanilla partner and only focusing on the BDSM world?

 

Here's the thing I've noticed with age groups. Your never too old to be a little, however there seems to be a gap in the way CG/l is viewed.

 

My Daddy is in his 40s, he's amazing. However most Caregivers I have spoken to around that age do want younger littles, because the CG/l dynamic was not as mainstream as it is now and therefore most of their choices and views are influenced by social media.

 

Then we have the younger group of CG/l's that are mainly focused on the accessories of the dynamic. Rules and spankings and toys etc. And the sexual aspect/kink. They lose the true meaning behind why they are a CG or a little and get caught up in the superficial.

 

Then if course there's thwbolder group, men/women in their +50's. these people I feel know the most about how the dynamic works, even though it may be a new label for them this is just how most relationships worked for that generation.

 

These are just generalizations based on my own experiences. There's always exceptions to the rule.

 

My advice to you would be use all options available. Just because someone doesn't identify as a Daddy doesn't mean that they won't possess those types of qualities. Be open to a vanilla relationship, test the waters, you may find someone who wants to discover more about this lifestyle or who will feel like this is where they have belonged all along.

 

I'm not saying you will never meet someone from BDSM related dating sites or from deliberately seeking someone who identifies as a Daddy... Just not to limit your options. I met my Daddy when I started working at the bar he worked at when I was 19. So you never know when someone will just pop up in your life.

[Guest Embers]

All I've been in are vanilla...

[cutie_patootie]

funding a daddy?  Lele... you don't need to offer money to find yourself  a Caregiver, you're too beautiful to have to do that.

[Guest AelaPiggy♥]

funding a daddy?  Lele... you don't need to offer money to find yourself  a Caregiver, you're too beautiful to have to do that.

lols, Carly... you caught that, didnt you

[cutie_patootie]

Sorry but being an English major and having OCD (among a plethora of many other faults) causes me to do these things...

[lilfunlove]

You're not alone, and not too old. I'm older than you and I'm a little. Daddies are hard to find for our bio age, but not impossible  

[A&Ω]

It's not impossible. As long as the dynamic and relationship is right, age doesn't matter to me. I lean towards the late 20s early 30s myself if looking for a partner. Enough life experience to know what you are looking for and usually a bit more confidence to be who you are.

 

Nothing against younger littles, however I am not attracted to anything less than 27 or so because of lack of life experience.

[no_ones_little]

[*~his baby girl~*]

I'm 33 :-)

[Daddy's Lil]

I'm 43 and my Daddy is 54, almost 55. Your never to old to be a little! 

[AngelGirl]

Thank you Daddy's Lil for giving me hope. 41 here

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

I'm 31 - daddy is 38 - daddy didnt know who he even was until recent years. There no age limit on this. Not everyone knows from the gate they are dominant or submissive! There's new people of all ages creeds and colors that find their way to this board and to this lifestyle everyday! The ship hasnt sailed until you give up hope.

[Steffy]

30 here. I feel a lot like I won't be wanted because of my age so I understand.

[Josh's little girl]

Im a little and I'm 8 yrs older then my daddy and we have 4 kids between the two of us. I had that thought too at one time now I don't think about it anymore age is just a number. You will find the right one I promise.

[beingthesubme]

I'm only 22 but I stress about this in terms of the future. I say be who you are and you will find someone. <3

[Guest NeedToServe]

I am 45 years old. It has literally nothing at all to do with age.

[Eliosa]

Like the others already have said, you're never too old to be a little.

Don't punish yourself with the thought you're not 'young enough' to be a little, because that's not what it's about.

 

Sometimes, people I know get sad when they see pictures on social media with skinny girls and their luxurious 'dd/lg lifestyle', but I always remind them that how much you weigh and what kind of gear you have, don't matter! Same goes for age. 

Edited July 14, 2016 by Elixx

[Missbehaved]

My Daddy is 10 years younger than me. We don't do ageplay.  He is just way more mature than I am.   

[babygirl12]

I'm 32. I've known I'm a middle since I was 27. my middle age is 12. I don't consider it ageplay. its just how I feel inside.

 

I HATE hearing it being called roleplay. Its just how I feel inside.

 

For me, yes lots of people want someone whos skinny (I'm not), I have grey hair and stretch marks and stuff.

 

It can be frustrating because most people want a roleplay. I just want a Daddy Dom to accept me as I am and hold me, and rub my booty until i fall asleep.

[Guest ninjakitty]

I'm new to..everything. I just made an account just so I could reply to this. I'm 31, and this just made me feel so much better. I'm super excited I even found this site.

[Glitterdemon]

I'm 45... although I'm not bothered by being a Little/Baby Girl at that age, it is reassuring knowing I'm not alone! ^__^

[Guest MissNMTX]

 I'm older too and new to this world. It can be very disheartening.  This is probably really judgmental of me to say and I don't mean it that way, but for me personally it would feel beyond strange to have this dynamic with someone younger than me. Some people can and do quite successfully, but for me I don't think I could. That does make it hard because let's face it. Its still completely normal for older guys to be with sometimes such younger girls. It can make you feel not desirable.....this is true in the vanilla world as well.

[Poppet in Wonderland]

I am a older little as well. I did feel off about my real age and posting here on the forum. Don't know why really. 

 

My attraction is men older than me and I don't think I could share this part of myself with someone younger than me. I don't think it's really judgmental, it's personal choice. : )