I need some with my relationship

[Missmure]

Im currently with someone who doesnt want to be dd/lg and i wont force him but i feel so sad that i cant 100% be myself and weve had problems i the past but idk what to do anymore i love but i cant always be myself

[M-Felicity]

Ask if he is otay if u have LDR w daddy online... and then look for online daddy who doesn't mind ur bf...

[Missmure]

Ty for the advice but im more of a one on one little i dont like sharing or to be shared

[M-Felicity]

Ty for the advice but im more of a one on one little i dont like sharing or to be shared

oh yesh that's same wif me...

Um then just *hugs* u don't always need daddy to be little!

Pwease read a post on how to be little without a daddy?

I mean I guess ur bf doesn't limit his affectionate to u, it can be just romantic care that might be  enough for you as a little?

What kind of stuff u really want him to do?

(Cuz most of couples are in ddlg, just never realise it)

[Missmure]

*hugs* hes really nice but he doesnt do much in the romantic care. Yea he cares about me but not how i wanna be cared for hes always more do it yourself kinda guy even if i ask him to show me

[Guest TetraKitten]

Just be yourself and if he doesn't like it he's obviously jot the right one :3

[Princess-P]

If you can't be yourself with someone they are not right for you.

 

He doesn't have to be your Daddy to love you and support you in whatever you want to do.

 

Have you tried telling him its OK not to participate? Has he told you its NOT OK to be little or do little things around him or is that just you being afraid that he may react like that?

 

Little or not, ant partner who doesn't accept you for who you are or if you have to his some of yourself from them, that's not someone who you should be with. But maybe your just reading it wrong and he just doesn't want to take part but there's no reason to not be who you are.

[Missmure]

I have told him im okay with what he wants i would never force anyone to do anything and thank you all for your help

[babyfox3]

Aw sorry that must be frustrating! Maybe he will warm up to it? If you take it very slow? I recently realized that littles and ddlg is a thing. I havent talked to my boyfriend much about it... I'm very afraid he will not like it