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Guest Eligah
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hi im trying to make list of rules and punishments that arnt super sexual can yall help me and my little :3

Guest ♥️ ashcake ♥️
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Some possible Punishments:

 

- writing lines (ex: "I will not be bratty.") or a paragraph describing what rule was broken/why/how it could have been avoided

- extra household chores (washing dishes, folding laundry, cleaning)

- time out (the little sits in the corner and thinks about what she's done without distracts for x amount of time)

- take away privileges (this could be anything your little uses a lot or plays with; tv, computer, gaming console) 

 

I do not recommend ignoring your little for any amount of time without warning as punishment. This is neglectful and does not teach littles' lessons (especially when its a LDR). As far as rules go, that's up to you and your little as they should be made to suit her individual needs. Rules are not one size fits all. Hope this helps. :-)

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early bedtime

writing lines

cleaning or extra chorse

no cartoon

no pacis

no sweets

time outs

spankings

(doesnt have to sexual trust me)

taking special time away (like movie or zoo)

Guest hissubmissiveprincess
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Agree with all of the above ideas except for taking away comfort items.

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Some rules that me and my daddy have are:

  • No bad words
  • No lying to Daddy
  • Bedtime on weekdays is 11
  • Tell daddy if something is wrong
  • Send daddy good morning and good night texts as much a possible
  • No talking back
  • No bad attitudes

Some examples of punishments are:

  • Writing lines
  • An apology letter
  • Corner time 
  • Early bedtime
  • Losing toys
  • Extra chores
  • Loss of computer time (or another activity I enjoy)
  • No treats
  • Calming bottle (picture below) and time out

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We have a contract, but the main thing for me is I had a say in that contract being built so I always say talk together about rules cause she is more likely to follow them if she's had a say in them. For example alcohol isn't a big deal for us so we have a two drinks max rule for me mainly cause that's also a rule from the doctors. We also have a rule about me talking about any big purchases over £100. That is mainly cause if it's say a new mattress daddy will go through sites with me and help me pick out the top three or five I wanna try at the store. It's not because he doesn't trust me. It's because he knows I will put off spending money because "what if"
Guest Eligah
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hey this is are rule list so far she wrote it out and she is ok with my posting it we both want yalls thoughts about it

 

Rules for Princess:

#1- Do not put yourself down

#2- Take medicine on time and text daddy on kik or skype

#3- No junk food or fast food, unless I ask

#4- Eat correct portions, don't eat too much, and eat healthier

#5- Exercise often, at least 4 or 5 times a week, and start off with 15 to 30 minutes

#6- Always be open with daddy #7- Keep myself and daddy updated on all upcoming events and schedules (put them in your phone and on calender)

#8- No self harming at all

#9- When shopping, you must think twice before buying, and really think about if its something you need now or can get later (Message daddy about things you think you want to buy)

#10- Always admit to daddy when you've done something wrong

#11- Every morning I have to stand up, look in the mirror, and say something good about myself (can't repeat what you say)

#12- No hiding from daddy, unless we are playing hide and go seek

#13- Always treat daddy with respect

#14-Allow daddy to voice opinions on choices I will make

#15- Always show daddy princesse's coloring

#16- I will not be sorry for things I didn't do, or don't have control over

#17- When going out, you must text daddy every so often to make sure princess is safe

#18-Always say please or thank you. Use proper etiquette.

#19- Must keep my space and myself clean always.

#20- Princess cannot be overly bratty.

#21-Daddy voices opinion on outfits.

#22- No lying

edit*

#23- Don't say no to daddy, unless you use the safe word cupcake

#24- No cussing (unless you get mad at a video game)

#25- No R rated movies unless princess asks daddy

Edited by Eli The Giant
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