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[Guest Purple_Panda]

Being around that age group myself I have been in many relationships where there has been a significant age gap, and I have found those relationships are more fulling then with someone around my own age.  It sounds like you need to sit this girl down and have a heart to heart with her. I don't want to make assumptions but it sounds like this girl is using you, most likely because you offer her somethings that her other "partner" does not... and no one should be anyone's secret... that's just plain hurtful. I'm very sorry for you, and honestly hope you find some solution. 

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[littlexkittenx]

Maybe you should give her some time to figure out what she wants. It must be hard for her to. Don't worry about your age gap its not a big deal. I'm 23 and my boyfriend is almost 42. It took awhile for my boyfriend to get into ddlg and understand it. He thought it was sooooooo weird at first, but its been like 3 years and now he loves being a daddy! 

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[LoralieHaze]

She sounds really manipulative to me. I think that if you two continue with this, she'll end up with a boyfriend her own age and you'll end up with a broken heart. Also, there's a chance that she's doing this same thing with other older guys. A lot of red flags and bad news all around. 

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[Guest Elencha]

Seriously. Stop letting this girl use you. I know that's not easy, but you aren't a toy. DDLG is magical, being toyed with by a literal child isn't. She probably hasn't met a man like you before. So? That means she should try to manipulate and degrade you? No. That isn't what you do to someone you value. I can't even count the red flags here. You can have an lg that isn't manipulative and won't cheat on you. You don't need this nonsense.

[Princess-P]

I agree with most here, this isn't healthy for either of you. She needs a reality check in order to grow up. To learn that she can't get her way with sex, as you say she gives into guys in order to make them stick around. She's using you as her go to when her other options are low.

 

Age gap has shit do do with it. I'm 14 years younger than my Daddy. We met when I was a teenager (19). This girl is going to be no good for you and will probably leave a bad taste in your mouth when it comes to the CG/l dynamic, which is a shame if you find this lifestyle suits you.

[LoralieHaze]

I think if she had a choice she would have a boyfriend her own age. She hasn't had good luck with dating guys. She's only gotten far as a second date and all they want is sex and she gives it to them in hopes they will stick around. She said she's never met a guy like me before.

 

Of course she hasn't met a guy like you before, she's 18. She hasn't met that many people in general because she hasn't experienced enough of life yet. If she was 28 or 38, that would actually mean something but it doesn't here She's just saying it to manipulate you. 

 

Same thing for dating. She's been doing that for, what, 2 or 3 years? She's not probably not going to find a life partner or soul mate that soon. Even if she did find one, she's obviously not ready to handle it. I agree that she needs a reality check.

 

If she truly hasn't met a guy like you before, and she adores you as much as you believe she does, then she would be treating you with respect and not seeing (or trying to see) other guys. She has too many issues and you deserve better than this.