I had being new but glad I woke up.

[Daddy2017]

I hate being new to this but I'm glad I woke up. I knew I was too caring to be a Dom. I tried that 5 years ago and had fun but it wasn't for me. I met a Babygirl for the first time and and the connection kinda blew my mind. So now Im scrambling to have a better understanding of her needs. I'm looking to be pointed in the right direction. I really like the energy and want it to grow. I'm looking for a good mentor, book recomendations and two questions. What does it mean when she's telling me she needs her pacifier to cope? And I'll save the other question for later.

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

The pacifier is a comfort item and generally used when trying to come down from a stressful situation. A lot of littles use DD/lg as a method to cope rather than just being sexual.