Tips for new littles?

[Bluebell]

Hello I'm a new little girl to the cg/l community! I hope we can be friends!

 

I wanted to know if you guys have some tips for new littles like me? Such as any warnings, helpful advice, or even some words of encouragement would be nice!

 

Thank you from Bluebell

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

Don't take anyone at face value. A lot of people have hidden motives. If you need advice feel free to ask. Don't be scared to ask questions. Everyone is different and you don't have to like pacifiers or bottles to be a little. There are different kinds of littles and middles. There is no one mold. Be cautious about some DDs, not all of them are bad, but there are a lot that don't know a lot about caring for a little and some may even only be in it for sex.

[LoralieHaze]

Second everything LR said, particularly about there not being one mold.

 

Take as much time as possible to get to know your Little self. What you do or don't like, what makes you feel comfortable or uncomfortable, what makes you feel Little, etc.

 

Explore the message board. Not only is it fun, but it can be very educational. I feel like I learn so much just by lurking. Don't be afraid to contribute though too.

 

Kelliann Galabinski on Youtube has a lot of informative videos that really helped me when I was first learning about this. One playlist here and another here. She has a lot of advice, and words of encouragement, and even a video about warning signs of a questionable caregiver.

[Bluebell]

Thank you both for the advice! I will keep these in mind

[lovelypandah]

Hi... I am a new little too maybe we can be friends??

[babyfox3]

Hii I'm new too!

[Bibi Kitty♡]

I'm also a newbie~ I hope we can be fwends ╰(*´︶`*)╯♡

[pyonp2]

Im a new little to cn i join