Need help getting into LS without Daddy

[pyonchi]

I've had trouble getting into little space for some time now, mostly because of my Daddy and I's relationship. We've been into Petplay for a year, and DDLG for a few months; we used to have various rules for me to follow, he'd give me my paci when I'd need it and watch Disney stuff with me. However as time went by, our relationship suffered since he won't communicate; there's no way we can make things right if he gets angry when I try talking about it, wether he's in a good or bad mood. We recently had a fight in which we both told each other we didn't feel loved, but he wouldn't tell me why and how I could help him feel loved (because I obviously adore him). He always ends up yelling and ignoring me, and that's also what he did this time.

Today I felt like I really needed to go into little space since I've been feeling, well, unloved, so I thought things would get better if my "Daddy" helped just a bit. As soon as I asked him, his good mood turned shitty and he went back to his computer. I obviously noticed since I'm VERY used to him getting annoyed at a simple little question, so I asked him. He said he was fine a few times, so I told him he looked sad (he gets angry if I say "mad" instead of sad) and he told me it was because I asked him to help me get into little space. The thing is, it doesn't just end there; he ignores and gets angry at me up to TWO  DAYS if I don't feel like having sex. We live in the same house, so two days can be very long. A rule that we had was "Princess has to tell Daddy when she needs something or feels uncomfortable doing something", but now it's like I get ignored / passive-aggressive punishment for following the rule...

 

What should I do? Considering talking only leads to him throwing a fit, what can I do alone to help myself getting into little space? I'd really need it :c I have coloring books, movies I can watch and cute apps on my phone, but it's like it's not enough.

Edited June 3, 2016 by pyonchi

[SuprTung]

It's sad to say but most of the time when a guy says he doesn't feel loved he means he's not getting as much sex as he wants.

[Guest Embers]

I have this same problem. And I keep getting approached by either pervs or catfish. Which keeps my head messed up

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

This is a red flag for many things. Please be safe and try to find another way to get into little space on your own. To me this is kinda abusive

[pyonchi]

It's sad to say but most of the time when a guy says he doesn't feel loved he means he's not getting as much sex as he wants.

 

Oooh, right. If only he could've just told me instead. Thank you~

[pyonchi]

This is a red flag for many things. Please be safe and try to find another way to get into little space on your own. To me this is kinda abusive

 

I understand, and I will~ Thank you very much! ♥

[LoralieHaze]

This is a red flag for many things. Please be safe and try to find another way to get into little space on your own. To me this is kinda abusive

 

I agree with all of this. As hard as it might be to hear, you should probably consider breaking up with him. Neither of you seem to be happy in this relationship, at least not the way it is now, but you can't make it better if he won't communicate with you.

 

Please don't have sex with him more as a way to change his mood or attitude. Not only will you end up feeling used, but he will more than likely just find something else that he think you're doing wrong or not frequently enough. 

 

In the mean time, here's a thread about getting into little space on your own. Hopefully this will help you.