Should I leave my Daddy?

[TheKittyPrincess]

I have been with my daddy/ boyfriend for 10 months. We are 200 miles from each other.

I just.. don't know what to do..

He's sweet and amazing, but he doesn't seem to make an attempt to meet me.. I had talked to him about telling his parents of me since at the time, it'd been 9 months and it seems as though he'd forgotten... it seems like.. all he wants me for is to be naughty with.. idk. Idk.

We used to skype a couple of times a month but we don't anymore.

He sends me voice messages and videos but it isn't the same.

He feels like he isn't good enough to be my daddy, and it breaks my heart because I feel like he is.. but.. he doesn't give me enough attention.. or recognition.. or... simply, time or even the satisfaction of meeting him.

I don't know what to do and it's tearing me up.

I feel like he is growing distant to me and I don't know what to do.

I really hope, he's not using me.

[Dragon Child]

I don't know, communication is important in these situations I'd talk to him about it one on one

[littlexkittenx]

Honestly, if you don't think this guy is good enough for you then he probably isn't. Don't waste your time with a guy that isn't giving you attention or value who you are as a person. If he only wants to talk to you when you're being naughty then he definitely is not daddy material. Don't wait any longer, you've been talking to this guy for 10 months then you need to end it before it turns into a year!

 

You can find another daddy. It might take a little bit of time but it will be worth it when you have a guy that actually makes an effort. 

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

Honestly, if you don't think this guy is good enough for you then he probably isn't. Don't waste your time with a guy that isn't giving you attention or value who you are as a person. If he only wants to talk to you when you're being naughty then he definitely is not daddy material. Don't wait any longer, you've been talking to this guy for 10 months then you need to end it before it turns into a year!

 

You can find another daddy. It might take a little bit of time but it will be worth it when you have a guy that actually makes an effort.

 

I agree. This seems to be a one sided relationship and if he is only interested in naughty things it's obvious that he may just being playing with you.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

To be blunt, darling, I think if you are asking random strangers on the internet to tell you what to do with your Daddy, then you already know the answer.

 

You might not like it. It might not be the answer you want. But in your heart, you know it.

Don't allow yourself to be used. Even if you care about him. Like was said above, you can absolutely find another Daddy. Don't sacrifice yourself for someone who doesn't deserve you. <3

Edited June 18, 2016 by BlushingBabyBelle

[Guest DomDaddyBear]

Hi..

 

Ask yourself what a daddy in general means to you. Maybe make a list. Then ask yourself if your daddy matches with how you think a daddy should be.

 

But to be straight forward...

 

Dump him. You deserve better.