New to this and having difficulties..

[Eskia]

Will try, thanks

Edited May 27, 2016 by Eskia

[A&Ω]

Both of you write down what you expect from the relationship.

 

Decide what is negotiable and nonnegotiable.

 

Work from there.

 

My 2 pennies

[DaddysLittlePrincess16]

Hello,

I have been doing this for about a year or year and a half. its a lot of talking about it. I have been with the same person for 7 years and we got very comfortable with each other then i was telling him one day what i wanted and what i felt that i needed. i like the safe place, i like to be taken care of and that i can be comfortable with who i am.  I think this is a lifestyle and you have to find the right person to fit for this, my daddy has been the best thing for me. always is there for me and makes sure i am where i should be and takes care of me. you just have to set down with your partner and say hey this is what i need or what or what you dont. write it out that help us out a lot, we also had a trial 2 months and if we didnt like this then we both could tell the other but we have never had a problem. i hope that helps.