Growing From Little to Middle

[Littlest_Lushie]

Hello all!

 

So fairly recently my Daddy had expressed to me that he had lost interest in my paci, my sippy, and lots of super little things. This scared me, and of course I took it hard at first. However, upon discussing things with him- I discovered that I didn't really care that I lost my paci a month ago and I hadn't used my sippy in over a couple months. But, I still loved cartoons, calligraphy, baths, and stuffies. But, I also had a bratty side of me from the beginning, almost a rebellious sort of thing. I always wanted to help him do "big things" in the kitchen or when we would go out. I want to have punishments and assignments/tasks. And well, I even have dressed more grown up from the beginning. Sooo, I have since stopped using the paci and sippy completely. I'am okay with this, and I can confidently say that I'am NOT changing who I'am just to be with my Daddy. I still call him my Daddy, but in the bedroom we use Master and have taken a more traditional D/s approach to our relationship in a sense.  

 

I believe our honeymoon phase has ended and we are both growing together and thats awesome! And its really cool to know that I'am literally growing up from a little to a middle! Ooooh... I could have a Middle birthday! A celebration of me growing up into a Middle!

 

So, my question to you guys is- have you (or your little) grown from being a little to a middle? What sort of changes have you made? What activities are good for Middles?

 

(P.S. I already know that their is a small Middles topic somewhere on the forums, but it didn't provide the info I was looking for.)

[Sunny]

I'm still a little personally, but I just wanted to congratulate you on your Middle graduation! I guess it's kind of like when you turn 13 and you're a "teen" for the first time. You should definitely have a celebration. ^w^

[Guest missamylittle]

First of all, congrats on your progression and the new level of your relationship. I'm happy that this was able to bring you guys closer. I also think its great that you were willing to be open to what your Daddy had to say. Considering your partners feelings in a relationship is so important. I do think it would be fun to have a middle birthday, that would also be symbolic of you two moving forward and growing in your relationship which is special and significant. Sometimes its hard to find someone you can grow with, so when you find it, you cherish it and hold on for dear life! haha. 

 

I haven't grown from little to middle, I've always been more of a middle overall. I think good activities for middles are fun video games, maybe creative writing, cooking easy recipes, so creative things that aren't too technical. Maybe your Daddy can tie dye shirts together, or bedazzle some of your belongs. Or you can make a collage on cork board, to hang in your room.

 

 Best Wishes 

[Littlest_Lushie]

Thank you Sunny! What do you think I should maybe do for a celebration? Any ideas?!

 

missamylittle, thank you soooo very much! I was so scared that we were weren't going to be able to find a middle ground (yay pun) and I remember crying most of the night. But we slept on it and definitely made a wonderful decision! I definitely do consider his feelings, he is very important to me and I really don't see myself being with anyone else for a long time. He and I have grown so much over these past 9 months, we've been through a lot, but we are so much stronger for it. I've been ferociously holding on for dear life and I just hope that we continue to do well together.

 

Thank you for these tips! They sound like a lot of fun! Or painting something together, or making something together. Hmm... not sure what else.

 

I have no idea what I would do for a Middle birthday! Like would we go out to eat and go bowling like on our first date? Would we go mini golfing or something? I have no idea! We have roommates so its very hard to do anything here at home unfortunately.