How do you handle losing your Daddy/Mommy?

[Buttercupbun]

Hey everyone! 

I haven't seen a post like this (I apologize if there is one) and I figured I would post it because I would like to see what others do.

About a month ago my Daddy and I split for good. It was sort of mutual though I still felt terrible due to it being my decision. Despite this I still wanted us to be friends but he blocked me from everything. It hurt a lot but I kinda forced myself to move on. Then about two weeks ago he appeared again and wanted us to be friends. So we talked a lot and one day I stopped getting messages. I found that he's blocked me again.

 

I'd gotten so used to talking to him that it really threw me off when he did that. Now I don't really know what to do.

 

Any littles got any advice that could help a fellow little out? 

 

It would truly be appreciated.

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

take the time you need for yourself to heal. It can be a lot like any other break up and it can be very hard. I suggest taking time to find friends who can support you and help you before moving on to find a new daddy. I don't mean to meet someone and throw your feelings on them, I mean get out into the world and socialize to distract yourself from thinking about them. As for your ex wanting to be friends, I've known some to work out but most often they don't. If they decide they want to be friends on and off, often times it's for a booty call.

[littlelili]

I am sorry but I congratulate you for taking such a brave decision. I'm sure it will be beneful for you, even if you feelnbad about it at the beginning.

My first (and only) daddy disappeared all of sudden. But I guess I had it coming since he had many misteries. It was a ldr so I think (sadly) that he never allowed me to know him completely. I felt really bad at the beginning, but one thing that actually helped me handling that awful situation was to embrace the positive things about that finished relationship. What good things did it brought to my life? What I have learned? What can I do better when next daddy appears? It looks weird but I feel thankful with him now. I think that changing the way you see a break up from negative to positive really helps to overcome things.

Ps: candy, descendants, and cute stuff helped a lot too

Hugs and keep being that brave!!! if you want to talk just add me!!!

[Buttercupbun]

Thank you guys for the info! I certainly did take the time needed (since I've been away for so long) and I've gotten a lot better.

[Guest Daddys_ace]

Have you tried journaling? It helps me a lot to get things out and into perspective. I also run, a lot now when I'm not feeling myself and it's something I can't talk about with my every day friends. I started couch to 5k app on my phone and it has helped a lot (I am not athletic at all.) It takes my mind off things and helps me focus on myself.

 

I'm sorry your having to deal with this *hugs* but you are stronger than you will ever know for walking away from something that wasn't working to ensure your overall happiness.

[dididarling]

Only because I've personally dealt with this... I'm like "Same"-ing all the replies. I agree with them all.

[Buttercupbun]

I can never really get into writing Journals. I always fall off. But I love to write so that made it a lot better!