Getting Into Littlespace Without a Daddy

[Guest AllieBallie]

Hi there!

 

I was reading a couple discussions on how to get into your littlespace, but a lot of them included a Daddy/Mommy. Does anyone have suggestion for when you're by yourself without a Daddy?

 

I've only barely scratched the surface of my little side, but being alone while little seems pretty daunting.

 

Thanks!

[ashwee]

I actually used to be little all the time before I met my boyfriend/daddy, and like there's a ton of things you can do  You can color, and you can watch cartoons, or like eat little food like macaroni and cheese or something, there's just so much

[Guest SillyLittleKitten]

Being Little without a Daddy is super easy once you get the hang of it. Just do whatever you would do if you were in a relationship. Watch cartoons/Disney movies, colour, play with stuffies... All of those are great ways to be Little without needing a Daddy at all. 

[littlelili]

Hello!! Well I don't have a daddy yet but I get into little without problem by doing this:

After a long day adulting I go home. Take off shoes and stay barefoot or put fuzzy socks ^^. I get some cereal in a bowl and watch cartoons. I also draw stuff. And relax. Maybe relaxing is the best you can do to get into little space.

Look for the things that make you feel little and wear/use/watch/do them ^^ it will surely help!!!

Hugs x

[LoralieHaze]

Having a caregiver is not a requirement for being a little, or for being in little space. It might be lonely sometimes without one but its really not daunting at all. 

 

I commend you for wanting to explore being Little first before getting into a relationship. I've noticed that a lot of newbies want a Daddy immediately after finding out about DDlg but from my own experience and from what I've heard from others, that's really not a good idea. 

 

Things you can do on your own include coloring, watching cartoons, playing with toys, eating certain food, playing dress up, listening to certain music, the list goes on. Witchling has a lot of helpful posts you could read, I know there's one all about little space that includes links.

 

Good luck. Have fun. 

[Rosie]

im reeally new to all of this too, i think getting into cute pyjamas and fluffy socks, having stuffies and little snacks, with a super cute hairstyle like space buns or pigtails is always a good place to start!

from there i can always get into colouring, watching cartoons or being on these forums easily and have fun doing them, if im not in little space before i do stuff like that i don't think i enjoy them nearly as much and it doesn't always help with getting into little space.

i hope that helped a little, and have fun!

[Mica]

Listening to music and colouring. I get really sad because I dont have a mummy or daddy but what I do is get my stuffie Benjie and we listen to music and watch shows together. I know its a little silly but I like playing the games on the Cbeebies and Nick Jr website

[LittleCharmed]

You don't need a Daddy or Mommy to get into little space. There are many things you can do.

 

Watch Disney movies.

Coloring books.

Collect stuffies. Pick your favorite one and snuggle with when watching movies.

Little food like Mac and cheese, chicken nuggets.

Favorite soppy cup with your favorite drink. Mine is chocolate milk

Get bows for your hair. I have a collection of my favorite ones

 

You can always find a sister to share little space with

[Amilialeigh1221]

I've found that talking to myself puts me in little space! I'll adapt a babyish voice and announce everything I'm doing as I grab a stuffie to play with.

 

Really, you just have to allow yourself be slid into your little space, just me comfortable being you! Forget your worries and pop in a movie, or do whatever childish things you love to do!

[LoralieHaze]

I've found that talking to myself puts me in little space! I'll adapt a babyish voice and announce everything I'm doing as I grab a stuffie to play with.

 

LOL! I do that too. Then usually repeat some of the words over and over again until I'm done doing that particular thing.

[Amilialeigh1221]

I'm the exact same way! It's so much fun! ^-^