Guest Berry_Bat Posted May 23, 2016 Report Posted May 23, 2016 (edited) Edited May 23, 2016 by SugarCookie
LoralieHaze Posted May 23, 2016 Report Posted May 23, 2016 What do you mean by "doesn't actually use tumblr"? How did you even start talking to each other? This sounds really creepy to me. I would ignore or block.
dnswd Posted May 23, 2016 Report Posted May 23, 2016 (edited) Yes it is a red flag. There is no need to rush into things. Take it slow. Insist on seeing him first. Tumblr is a public medium, skype isnt. If he isnt patient to continue talking to you then dont bother. On the other hand if you want to take a leap of faith make a dummy skype account. If he tells/asks you to get on skype refuse. Same for nudes. Do not do anything that you arent comfortable doing. You arent over-reacting. As you said you have only just met him. Even if you are paranoid trust your instincts. Edited May 23, 2016 by dnswd
Guest Berry_Bat Posted May 23, 2016 Report Posted May 23, 2016 What do you mean by "doesn't actually use tumblr"? How did you even start talking to each other? This sounds really creepy to me. I would ignore or block. He seems to have just made a tumblr- he doesnt have a picture, doesnt reblog/like things, and tbh i dont even know how he came across my blog....i feel stupid now but thanks for the advice!
dnswd Posted May 23, 2016 Report Posted May 23, 2016 You are welcome. If have questions dont hesitate to ask. There are quite few here who like to help.
littlelili Posted May 23, 2016 Report Posted May 23, 2016 Just be really careful If he is really interested he should accept your conditions, like sending pics etc. I don't use tumblr so I dunno how suspicious is to have a new account, but just take it slow. I know your social anxiety maybe leads you to think the worst, but try to stay calmed to think clearly. don't rush the things and explain yourself well. If the guy is good he'll understand. Good luck and hugs
Guest Berry_Bat Posted May 23, 2016 Report Posted May 23, 2016 Just be really careful If he is really interested he should accept your conditions, like sending pics etc. I don't use tumblr so I dunno how suspicious is to have a new account, but just take it slow. I know your social anxiety maybe leads you to think the worst, but try to stay calmed to think clearly. don't rush the things and explain yourself well. If the guy is good he'll understand. Good luck and hugs it turns out he wasnt right for me haha but thank you 1
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