Advice for a new little?

[Rosie]

hi everyone!

i'm extremely new to all of this, to ddlg and this website! I've only recently started to identify as a little and even more recently been open about it, but I have no idea how to make little friends! I also have no idea where to buy cute clothes or anything like that for when i'm in little space. any advice would be really appreciated! xo

[sunchaser]

Hai Rosie!! I'm Amelia or Sun. A great way to get started is the chat room but also searching the site for specific topics. There's a lot here that's already been said or discussed. Send people friend requests too. Everyone is super friendly. I'll send you one now.

[Beardyslittlegirl]

Hai Rosie!! I'm Amelia or Sun. A great way to get started is the chat room but also searching the site for specific topics. There's a lot here that's already been said or discussed. Send people friend requests too. Everyone is super friendly. I'll send you one now.

That's no fun, being ignored is the WORST! Im not bratty often because the power is daddies butttt sometimes it fun to try to be powerful and the punishment is even more funner

[Beardyslittlegirl]

Hmm that posted to the wrong one ..

[sunchaser]

Weird

[DDevilRuSS]

Haha, that is weird. The forum was being bratty. However, hello! I'm Russ. Well, Amelia gave excellent advice - the forum has tons of information and friendly people, whom you can meet in the chat. It's polite to ask if you can add someone in chat first, but sometimes it doesn't happen.

 

 

As for more advice, be patient. You're discovering yourself and that takes time, so we can pay attention to the details we see. Don't rush into any relationship, as there are a lot of fakes, too. Do your research and don't hesitate to ask. I'll post some links for you on break.

[Witchling]

Hello Rosie, welcome.

 

This site is a great place to make friends (as far as I've seen,) and the other thing I can recommend would be making a fetlife account, and looking into events in your area for littles or DDlg enthusiasts. There are several where I live, not sure what the scene will be like where you are. (P.S. the fetlife site looks way more intimidating than it actually is I promise, it's basically kinky Facebook.)

 

Also, tumblr has a wonderful community of littles, but it's a bit drama-filled so stay away if you don't dig ranting walls of text about controversial subjects.

 

Now, onto your questions. I have lots of sites I use for information and fun little stuff, and since I am a link machine, I'm gonna post a bunch here for you.

 

 

INFORMATION (these are my go-to informational links)

 

1. DDlg info - Great starter site for general info

 

2. A Little Understanding - More good general info

 

3. Littlespace online - Forum similar to this one, has some great info links in the sidebar

 

4. domsub blog - Great info and a good flow of new articles about being in a DDlg relationship

 

5. Fearless Press DDlg Article -  Great info for when you find a Caregiver

 

 

 

WHERE TO BUY STUFF

 

1. Onsies Downunder, Aww So Cute, & Cuddlz - Super cute adult baby shops

 

2. Sock Dreams & Chrissy's - Cute socks

 

3. AMI Clubwear, Love Culture, ModCloth, Daisy Duxie, Radtrash, Sourpuss, Think Geek & Torrid (for our lovely plus size littles) - Reasonably priced cute every day clothes

 

4. Dolls Kill, Wildfox, Pixie Kitsune, & Sugarilla - Much less reasonably priced cute clothes

 

5. Kitten's Playpen* & Kitten Cream  - geared towards petplay, but lots of littles are into dressing up as animals regardless

 

6. Footed Pajamas, Pajama City, & Jumpin Jammerz - Awesome adult sized onesies

 

7. Spirit Halloween, Costume Express, & Halloween Express - For adult sized costumes for dress up

 

8. Angelic-Pretty, Anna House, BabySSB, Bodyline, Candy Fruit, & Vivicore - Lolita fashion (be careful with sizing)

 

9. Cosy N Dry, ABDL Factory, Fetware, & ABU - For specifically ABDL if you're into that

 

10. Toys R Us, Disney Store, & 5 Little Monkeys - Toys and games for kids

 

On top of that, Etsy has some great sellers that make awesome DDlg stuff, and Amazon is always great for finding stuff you can't find elsewhere.

 

I hope all of this helps, and if you ever need advice or whatever feel free to add & message me!

 

 

 

* Please be aware that Kitten's Playpen has extremely long processing times, and while their products and custom handmade items are amazing, I can vouch for the fact that it takes forever. I've been waiting for my most recent order for almost 9 months, and it still hasn't even started being made yet. 

Edited May 23, 2016 by Witchling

[Guest Lovesdaddy1972]

For clothes I've noticed Wish has a lot of cute little things and not very expensive either. 

[Guest AllieBallie]

Looks like we're in the same boat! Its nice knowing you're not the only one

[Rosie]

i didn't realise people were responding to this, oopsie!

thank you Amelia and Russ, you've both been super helpful and welcoming!

and witchling thank you for all of the links! ill definitely check them all out later

 

haha its good to know I'm not the only one allie! although everyone on here has been super helpful, I'm learning pretty fast

you can always drop me a message if youre looking for other little friends like me