"Coming to DDlg" stories

[BeardyDaddy]

I want to hear peoples stories of how they came to the realization they were truly DDlg. I am going t tell it from my point of view, and my little has my permission to write from hers.

 

I have always had a forceful,dominant personality. I have enjoyed BDSM activities since I was around 19. I always was the compassionate, balanced dom. Extremely heavy duty pain and punishment, but extremely tender aftercare.

 

My Little love and I have been in a BDSM master/brat slave relationship for over a ear. Our schedules are tough and it always caused stress. I constantly thought she was being very clingy at times and overly emotional, leading to arguments. I read a little about DDlg relationships and felt a strong connection to the lifestyle. The dots still didn't connect.

 

Finally, we were at our wits end. We were ready to give up on each other. We decided were going out with one angry hate fuck session. I tossed her on the bed, raped her savagely telling her "no matter who you have I am your real daddy". She wanted to be ma but was somewhat speechless. She "forced" my head to her pussy (I am by far stronger than a half dozen of her), and fought me off right before she came. 

 

All of a sudden we had no hate, no animosity. I held her and let her be emotional. we talked. we held. Then I got hard and decided to take her again. only this time the vibe was completely different. all of a sudden all of our normal daddy and sub talk got deeper, and younger. I started describing her body, we locked eyes an I said "do you want my darkness?" an she said "yes daddy" and she went into her little space for the first time in bed. IT was amazing and intense and literally felt like the first time we had ever made love, again.

 

 

once we had this revelation, we talked and held and cried and rebuilt our relationship anew. As Daddy and Little Girl.

 

I love you my little darling.

[Beardyslittlegirl]

I love you so much daddy. This is so perfect. I love reading what you wrote about us. My life never made sense until that very moment we looked into each other eyes and you took me as your little <3

[Amilialeigh1221]

I had been interested in BDSM since I was very young, perhaps far too young than normal.

 

I'd been in and out of relationships with very vanilla men, and I was unbelievably bored. Even back then I knew I was kinky and wanted a 24/7 relationship that I was not getting. I was unhappy, frustrated, and annoyed beyond all belief. I was too embarrassed to talk to my significant other about my desires because I was afraid he would leave me, but I had stopped being a good girlfriend.

 

Eventually he came to me and expressed the same unhappiness that I had been feeling. I remember him taking a deep breath and just laying it all out on the table. I was utterly shocked. He new more than I did about BDSM at the time, which took me completely by surprise. He introduced me to the DD/LG dynamic and I was very hesitant at first, as I considered myself to only really enjoy a 24/7 master/slave lifestyle.

 

Then it just clicked. I realized that there had always been a little side of me. It was the reason I loved Disney movies, the reason I adored stuffed toys and childish games. It was like my eyes had been opened to an entire portion of myself that I had always been blind to.

 

We ended up eventually splitting, but I will always thank him for introducing me to the lifestyle.

[Harley_Quinn]

I started to think about bdsm and ddlg and what not when I was about 16 but I thought it would make me like weird and an outcast. I didn't start coming to terms with who I wa till I met my current daddy. He's very dominate in general as I am very submissive in general. So we sorta clicked and started talking about stuff and boom I'm here lol

[Guest pearlpizza22]

I'll start this out with.....

It all started with a daddy kink. No big deal right? So i liked the idea of calling my boyfriend daddy, what's the wrong here? 

Then there was the fact that all my friends called me a five year old. So what?

My boyfriend and i had talked previously about me being a little rope bunny, and we talked a bit about choking, but i didnt even know how to bring up the daddy kink. But what really surprised me is when he brought it up to me. Evidently i give off a kinky vibe, because he said to me in all seriousness "I feel like you highkey have  a daddy kink and youre too shy to admit it..." So that's when i spilled the beans about wanting to call him daddy. Later on about a month later he brought up the topic that he cares for me in a way like a daddy. I enjoyed that  

So i came across ddlg one day when i was searching for some good daddy kink erotica, and some ddlg stuff came up. Me being the curious cat i am, searched more into it. I realllllllllly liked the idea, and by then i was more comfortable with my boyfriend, so i told him about it. 

Basically it was a very big AHA moment for us. It all made sense now. We did some more research and decided to try it out. A hop skip and a jump away, im on this forum!!!! 

It's been pretty great so far.

[Guest FORLOM]

I realized I was a Daddy at the age of 18. I had only had 2 real girlfriends before then but at 18 I met a Little. It started out as just a one night stand but it turned out to be a night that lasted 6 months. Over the course of those 6 months I began to realize that my high protective and nurturing instincts were there for a reason. Me and her didn't last for reason I won't explain but I owe her. She helped me realize who I was meant to be.