What do you do when you find a Little?

[Guest Z-kitty]

Hi everyone!

 

I am kinda new to this lifestyle and have a question. I met a girl in my community who was collared and I was really excited because I had never actually met someone who felt the same way, I guess, about themselves as I do. I did ask about the collar because I figured if she was open to telling me it would be ok. But she didn't exactly say anything specific.

 

The question is, how do you like start? I dont know. I don't want to be rude but I was really excited to like hear what she had to say in person and talk to her about it. How would you have handled that?

 

Thank you

Edited May 20, 2016 by Z-kitty

[Meggles]

What do you mean by..start? Being a part of this community doesn't have a set "beginning"..you just do what comes natural to you; i.e. use baby talk, wear a collar, use a pacifier...whatever it is you want to do to express the you under you, if that makes any sense. Talking to more and more like minded people will assist in helping you to find the quirks that make you most comfortable. 

[Guest Z-kitty]

Thank you. What i mean by start is start the conversation. I know that I don't always want people in my business or in my life, especially one who I haven't personally known for a long time. So how would you approach a person and make sure they don't feel like you are forcing into their space? I'm sorry i was unclear. it was late and I'm bad with communications sometimes 

[gah!ghost]

That's kind of a tough question. I'm not sure there's an easy answer. Given what you said about her kinda dodging the collar question it sounds like she's not very open about it. The best advice I can think of would be to talk about yourself and what you like rather than prying into what she likes and that may allow her to open up. Sorry I can't offer much more specific advice.

[Guest Z-kitty]

That's okay. Thank you