Feeling a "little" lost

[Larien88]

[LolitasDaddy]

This lifestyle has a lot of aspects, and we all pick and choose what's important to us. Is him being poly no longer an issue? I'd worry about being the best little you can for you. If that's not good enough for him, then he isn't a match for you. You will never be yourself if you just try and fit a mold for someone else.

[Larien88]

Now that he understands and there is no more holding back he says I'm all he needs. So yes poly should not be a problem due to he was only seeing the other girl because she was an open little and that is all there relationship was. He said him and I had so much more then that and he missed me

[KayBaby♥]

I kind of feel like you in that regard, a 'little' lost. Even though our situations are different because I've never had a DDlg relationship. It's kind of why I joined this site, to learn more and for guidance. 

[Larien88]

Well I have never honestlyhad the relationship mainly because him and I only talked over the phone and it was discussed I may be a little Or baby girl and he tried to explain things just with the distance it ended fast. But now my current bf\ daddy we are working on it just I have a small child so it is hard for me to always be in that little place :\ so I'm worried it may just not be enough.

[BeardyDaddy]

the reality of the DDlg relationship is you can't be a wrong little. there is no wrong way to be the little. It is the daddy whose methods need to be tailored to the type of little you need to be. Some daddy doms can't work with some littles and thats okay.