A 'double little' relationship?

[JohnApple]

So recently at school, I met a girl and we became friends. As it turns out, she is a little and really involved in the DDLG relationship! We were having conversation about each other's DDLG interests when I asked how her daddy was, as I knew she was in a relationship. She told me she didn't have a daddy, and my first assumption was that she hadn't told her boyfriend about her DDLG side yet. When I asked her this, she told me that wasn't the case, and her boyfriend was actually a little as well.

 

For some reason, the thought that a relationship could consist of two littles, and not a third CG, never occurred to me. I thought it was really interesting, and asked her about it. She said that they essentially both act like their little selves when their in little space, with no outside care. She explained how having a caregiver wasn't necessary for them, and they rotated 'helping each other' (as she called it) when it came to things like changing, tucking in for bed, and getting each other dressed. It was really interesting to me, and I definitely saw how it could be appealing and work well.

 

It got me curious... are there are LG/LG, LG/LB, LB/LB, etc. relationships here? Has anyone considered it before? What are your opinions on it? Thanks for reading!

[Guest glitter bunny]

thank you for posting this, this is a great question!!! Im curious of the answer, im gonna lurk this

[chubbyprincess]

I'm a little in a relationship with ... I think the term is a "switch"? Correct me if I'm wrong, please. But my daddy is a little sometimes, though it's a bit rare. It's a nice relationship and it works out really well. I was actually wondering about this myself a few weeks ago but I guess I'm not alone.

[LolitasDaddy]

Absolutely no reason this couldn't work out. At the very least you are sharing and interest and a kink with the person you love. As long as not having a Daddy doesn't leave a void, or if both are willing to consider an outside caregiver, it could surely work out.

[littlelili]

No idea this could happen but it's so cute!

[JohnApple]

I'm so glad to see others thinking this is really cute as well! The thought of being little never appears to me because I'm not one who enjoys being dominated, "cared for", or being dependent. However, being little together with my partner sounds pretty fun and adorable, and I'm really curious to give it a shot now!

[Little Emma Doll]

That is so cute ;w;

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

Daddy and I are both switches, so sometimes it's common for us to both be in Little/Pet space at the same time. (He refuses to admit he is a little, but I know he is) I've also thought about Little X Little relationships and think they can be really cute, but I feel like a lot of creepers will try to get involved in the relationship.(Much like some guys think they can get involved with two bi girls for a three way) I've asked Daddy about possibly having a "Playmate" but it's still in debate and it would have to be another switch.

[Mica]

That sounds like a really cute idea :3 

[Big Red]

I've heard and seen of this before and it really redefines the power littles have in a relationship. If one is a little and the other is neither, the little is still just that. Two littles are just that as well, but a daddy/mommy/caretaker are only that if they have one to take care of, otherwise they are just an adult xD

 

Littles have the ability to keep their dynamic no matter who their partner is, male/female, dom/sub, or without a partner all together.

[JohnApple]

I've heard and seen of this before and it really redefines the power littles have in a relationship. If one is a little and the other is neither, the little is still just that. Two littles are just that as well, but a daddy/mommy/caretaker are only that if they have one to take care of, otherwise they are just an adult xD

 

Littles have the ability to keep their dynamic no matter who their partner is, male/female, dom/sub, or without a partner all together.

 

What an excellent way to put it! Seeing two littles in love would probably make my heart melt on the spot!

 

I'm really hoping we can hear some double little relationship tales here!

[Guest ShyFairyPrincess]

Firsthand experience here! Being a switch, I find myself feeling obnoxiously little at times and very grown-up at others, on about week-to-week cycles--and I'm in the most flawless relationship with my little girl I go by Mommy to her whether I'm acting big or "silly", as she calls my little state, because I am the only one out of the two of us who is ever a caregiver, therefore I'm always her Dom. Our relationship actually started because I was friends with her at-the-time daddy, and she explained to me the DDlg dynamic when I told her I'd never heard of it. From then on for awhile, I identified as a "secret little", because I would so often switch to my big self (I didn't know "switch" was a term until recently--phew!) During this time, my princess and I became best little friends, and I even joined her relationship with her daddy for a bit--but I noticed that I was particularly bratty, against being bossed around *almost* completely. This is why I decided to try being big for my girl when she told me she was single--that and the fact that I knew she needed a caregiver, the poor thing is just so self-destructive. So, that's that! I Dom for her but retain my little characteristics--which makes for quite interesting arguments. Lemme know if anyone has any other curiosities about the dynamic!

[JohnApple]

Firsthand experience here! Being a switch, I find myself feeling obnoxiously little at times and very grown-up at others, on about week-to-week cycles--and I'm in the most flawless relationship with my little girl I go by Mommy to her whether I'm acting big or "silly", as she calls my little state, because I am the only one out of the two of us who is ever a caregiver, therefore I'm always her Dom. Our relationship actually started because I was friends with her at-the-time daddy, and she explained to me the DDlg dynamic when I told her I'd never heard of it. From then on for awhile, I identified as a "secret little", because I would so often switch to my big self (I didn't know "switch" was a term until recently--phew!) During this time, my princess and I became best little friends, and I even joined her relationship with her daddy for a bit--but I noticed that I was particularly bratty, against being bossed around *almost* completely. This is why I decided to try being big for my girl when she told me she was single--that and the fact that I knew she needed a caregiver, the poor thing is just so self-destructive. So, that's that! I Dom for her but retain my little characteristics--which makes for quite interesting arguments. Lemme know if anyone has any other curiosities about the dynamic!

You actually sound quite a bit like me! I'm a daddy that tends to have strong little characteristics at times. Although, I can't say I've ever played the role of a little in a relationship. One question I have is, do you ever go long periods of time where you're solely in your little state? If so, how does that affect your relationship with your little?

[Guest ShyFairyPrincess]

Edited May 14, 2016 by Proud Mommy

[SweetMarie]

Oh what a topic! I would bet money on the fact that my last BF is a little. I am new to DDlg, and new in some ways to BDSM, but feel that I have always had a little inside me. I am a switch, but mostly because I've had to be. Being with another little can be tough- especially if you're unaware/uneducated about the different dynamics. It was certainly a lot of fun at times (I feel kinda like I lost a playmate), but I often had to take on the role of the big/responsible one, and that became really stressful. The experience really helped me figure out that I'm a little, and that maybe I want a different relationship dynamic. I'm currently with someone a fair bit older, whereas my last BF was a bit younger. But still need to find out if my current partner is daddy material.

[little brat]

I know that this is not quite the same as being in a relationship with another little but it just sounds so simular that I had to post. Okay here I go both my best friend and I are littles without caregivers and so we basically take care of each other and it works pretty well we make sure that the other has done all that they were supposed to.

[M-Felicity]

Thank you for this post *o* 

I join everyone it IS SUPER CUTE!!! 

 

 I hope they neever make each other upset!

I WILL JUST LEAVE the pic HERE FOR YOUR DAILY dose of CUTENESS  

    

 

xx. Mia

[Sassykitten92]

My boyfriend and I are both littles .Our dynamic os more brother /sister.We switch back and forth between big/little siblings and "help" each other .Its fun and cute <3