Worried :(

[Kittenbec]

I couldn't figure out if there was a way to delete a thread but I didn't want this up anymore. Thank you to the ones that replied. Edited July 14, 2016 by Kittenbec

[Sunny]

Oh wow, you must be so worried. D:

 

I think honestly is important in any relationship, but especially in DDlg. That's because littles are precisely the kind to fret so heavily over things like this, and as your Daddy he should know better. I think, when you can contact him again, you need to talk to him about why this happened -- even if it's bad news. It's better to know the truth than live lies. Also, your Daddy sounds kinda unstable; is he getting any help of any kind? Caregivers do so much for us, it's not wrong for them to need extra support too. Whatever the case, try to take your mind off it for now -- I find loud music and movies help distract me, as do doing things with my hands such as lego. I hope everything works out for you!

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

This is the second time something like this has happened? Are you able to see where he is spending the money so you can possibly get a clue of where he is going and who he is with? And why did they make him leave campus? 

 

I don't wanna be a party pooper, but some of these things seem like red flags towards cheating. If this has happened before how long ago was it? It would make sense if he was out with his brother or friends, but for him to lie about something like that seems a bit off key. 

 

And as for psychiatric help, it seems it would be good to look in a little if he is that stressed. If anything saying he is scared he will be unable to take care of you more so seems to be psychological rather than money issues.

 

As a little with a daddy that has mental illnesses and as someone who suffers from some mental illnesses myself, sometimes we need help and it's okay to ask for it. I would talk to him more to understand why he was freaking out. There are some holes in the story, but that might just be me. I hope everything is okay.

[Kittenbec]

. Edited July 14, 2016 by Kittenbec

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

Okay so that makes a lot more sense. It's most likely he is around people you don't like then rather than the cheating aspect. I hope everything works out,