I feel alone.

[kjarellano1]

I've recently found a girl that I really like, but the entire relationship/friendship between us seems empty and hollow.

I'm a nice guy and I will do anything to not hurry someone, but I don't know how to fix this.

do I leave her and risk hurting her or stay and be.. well.. miserable?

[Daddy Itzae]

imho I think you already know what you have to do, only you can't do it yet. By staying and making yourself miserable you are doing her a big disservice too, since eventually she will be miserable as well and you will end up leaving anyway.

 

It's not clear from your post whether you are already a couple or just getting to know each other. But even if you are a couple I think she deserves to know the truth and then both of you can decide what's best, either try to change the dynamic or simply part ways friendly.

 

Just my 2 cents... don't read too much into it. I'm sure more knowledgeable and experienced people will chime in soon.

Edited May 3, 2016 by Daddy Itzae

[Guest AmberDoll]

I agree with Daddy Itzae if you stay with her it will hurt her more down the road if it's causing you to be so alone...you both deserve to be able to be happy and if you stay you won't be and she won't be so, best thing is talk to her say this to her see if there is anything that can change and if not figure out how to move on from there.

I hope it all works out and it gets better for you and her weather as friends, lovers, or apart.