An Older Little Age

[Guest missamylittle]

As I absorb all the information on social platforms I'm seeing that general little ages are fairly young. If I could estimate what I've seen so far I'd say ages 3-10. But I feel like my little age is around 14 even though I'm actually 20, is it uncommon that my actual age is so close to my little age?

 

And yes, I know every Little is different.

Edited April 30, 2016 by missamylittle

[TinyItalian]

That's not uncommon at all! Usually, people who have an older age-spectrum refer to themselves as Middles, but you choose how you identify. But no, it's not uncommon at all in my opinion/experience.

Edited April 30, 2016 by TinyItalian

[Guest missamylittle]

Oooo that makes sense! Thank you, I never understood what a middle was. 

[Sunny]

It's not uncommon! What you're describing is known as a "middle", someone that identifies with ages younger than themselves, but older than littles. Think of a "tweenager" or older and you have yourself a middle. :3

[Guest Lolitalilac]

Hi!! -waves at you-

 

Its perfectly normal you're a middle like me! :3 and that is ok it just doesn't get talked about as much cause little age ranges are more popular

[Guest sirdude77]

Sometimes it takes awhile for a little to realize ahe's actually a little and admit it. I experienced that myself last year with my ex. After we brike up she came ro the realization that she is a little and actually had a hard time admitting it to herself.

[Guest missamylittle]

Thank you for replying Sunny and Lolita! 

 

Hello! 

[Guest missamylittle]

  On 4/30/2016 at 10:12 PM, sirdude77 said:

Sometimes it takes awhile for a little to realize ahe's actually a little and admit it. I experienced that myself last year with my ex. After we brike up she came ro the realization that she is a little and actually had a hard time admitting it to herself.

 

This is very interesting. I don't think this is the case with me, but I might experience it in the future?? Who knows. This is something to think about. Did her denial affect the relationship?

[Guest sirdude77]

Yes. I only recently realized this.

[littlelili]

Hello Missa there is nothing wrong in identifying yourself as a middle. I think that if you feel comfortable with it, then it's fine.

How did you discover you were a middle? I mean what do you like to do when you are in your middle space? ^^ what do you wear? I'm curious hugs!!

[Guest missamylittle]

Hi Glitter! Mmmm I'd say I discovered I was a middle when I felt younger than my age, but not as young as a toddler. I feel like I can hold my own but only to a certain degree. I also feel like my energy and character is like a tween. Things I do when I'm in little space? Not much actually. I listen to a lot of bubble gum pop, I like to read novels that talk about falling in love in school hallways, I love finger foods and junk food, I wear t-shirts jeans and sneakers. So my personal sense of style isn't very developed either, its very casual, nothing that really stands out. I usually twist my hair and put it in a bun, but my favorite is french braid pigtails.   Hugs!

[Sunny]

  On 4/30/2016 at 10:17 PM, missamylittle said:

Thank you for replying Sunny and Lolita! 

 

Hello! 

 

No problem and hello, freshly-found middle! Does it feel better to know you're not alone? :3

[Guest missamylittle]

  On 5/1/2016 at 2:12 AM, Sunny said:

No problem and hello, freshly-found middle! Does it feel better to know you're not alone? :3

 

 

Yes it does feel better knowing I'm not alone!  

[Marc(1966)]

Hi 

I am glad you asked here,  I think there are allot of people who know where you talk about and the feelings you have. 

It is the first time i am here.

 

x marc

[Guest missamylittle]

  On 5/1/2016 at 8:41 PM, Marc(1966) said:

Hi 

I am glad you asked here,  I think there are allot of people who know where you talk about and the feelings you have. 

It is the first time i am here.

 

x marc

 

 

Yes, a lot of us identify with the same concerns and thoughts. Its nice to find support and common ground 

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

My age can vary from 4-13 depending on the level of stress I  have because I use little space as a coping thing. It's actually pretty common, so don't worry c:

[Peach121]

Hello!

So I experienced some interesting stuff whilst finding myself in DDlg/abdl.

So I used to be purely into the relationship dynamic and calling my other half Daddy. I was what you would call a middle - except I was like it constantly. Obsessed with disney, pokemon, gaming etc.

As Daddy and I have ventured further into the lifestyle my little age has gotten younger and younger. I now place myself between 2 and 4. I have also found that when in my adult space I don't feel the need to play video games etc, and kind of that my newly found (very little) little side has somehow given me such a concentrated space to vent these feelings. I find when I am adulting I am very much an adult, it's actually helped with my maturity - and that when I'm little in VERY young.

 

BUT, as everyone will tell you we are all different. You may be a little who is still finding herself, or you may be a middle!

Enjoy the journey to finding yourself!

I'm 21 in a few days so of a very similar age and it's only recently that I have fully been able to accept my identity, although I'm sure as I grow as a person and experience more of the lifestyle I will get to know myself even better