Daddy here needing some little help!

[Vigorz]

Hello all you littles!

so my girlfriend today basically told me she was a little. I already had a hunch about it and have been making myself educated on the whole thing and I'm into the ddlg lifestyle. She told me that she's known about it for some time now but only has gotten into it recently because she hasn't met someone she felt comfortable with to really explore that part of herself. She seems a bit timid about talking about it so I need some help. I wanted to just get a small basket or little bag of cute little stuff for her so she wont feel embarrassed that she's a little and to show her I support her.

Do any of you little have any ideas?

What are some of your favorite little things?

Thank you so much!

[Guest Luna96]

maybe some coloring books, or stuffed animals, maybe a pacifier if she wants one. maybe some books like dr.suess books. there's some ideas. i hope it helps.

[littlelili]

How about:

-coloring books

-cute stationery sets

-stuffies

-her favorite candy

-bedtime stories books

-fuzzy socks!

Find first if she would like a pacifier... not all littles are into it

Good luck

[Guest pearlpizza22]

i agree with the above comment

fuzzy socks and coloring books are great

and definitely wait on the pacifier, she may not want one.

[babygirlpink]

I agree also.. Just really anything you find cute.

Some ideas could be:

- Stuffies (maybe a favorite animal?)

- Coloring books (plus crayons if you don't have 'em)

- Cute candies

- All of the things from above comments!

 

I really do recommend waiting on a pacifier.. Again, some littles don't prefer them. For me at least, at first I didn't want one. Then I kinda grew to like them. Who knows?! All littles are unique and very special.

[Guest little domi]

All the above are great ideas... Also, maybe you can take her to a toy store and have her pick out some things. I got to do that once, and nothing made me feel more little or more special than holding Daddy's hand and dragging him around to the things I wanted to play with the most.

[Guest]

So happy for you guys!! I remember your post about bringing DDLG into the relationship!!

All of the above are GREAT suggestions!! Coloring books are probably the easiest, you can chose one that is of her favorite movie!! 
I understand she is timid but try asking her what she wants! Maybe encourage her to create a tumblr (if she doesn't already have one) and you can get some ideas from what she likes posting

Best of luck!!

[Willa14]

You are so sweet!

 

What a thoughtful idea.

 

For me, the most important part I think would be the card. I remember my Daddy getting one with a teddy on it that said "yay!" - so cute. But aside from all the adorable "stuff" it's really the sentiment that counts I think. 90% of littles seem to be VERY insecure, shy about coming out, shy and embarrassed about.. well everything lol. My advice would be to make sure you tell her over and over and over and over that you like (love?) her - just the way she is - and wouldn't want her any other way.

 

Seriously, even if you think she's probably incredibly sick of hearing it. Remind her again. Even when she's pulling away and hiding under a blanket. Tell her again.

 

We need reassurance! Pretty much all the time.

[LittleLoliPrincess]

I agree with littlebird. Reassurance is key! I really love to read and so childish books, nursery rhymes and things of that sort would be awesome gifts. All littles like stuffies, so you can get those too.

[BunBunBubbles]

First of I have to say how sweet it is of you to be doing this for your partner. just shows how much you care about her. The items you will need will depend on her little age. Maybe ask her about the first and take it from there. All the suggestions above are great ideas by the way. If you like buying cloths for her, some little's like it when their Daddy picks an outfit out for them. Another idea is if she like cakes or sweet things some little's like it when you feed them. I also did a post today about "Little 101 Help" people put some suggestions that one for me if you want to check it out too.

[Patches23]

This really warms my heart. Well done sir

[Patches23]

Play doe!!!

And a binkie, that tells her she can be as little as her heart desires without any judgement from you. Big boost of confidence for her

[Harley_Quinn]

Daddy got me a Stuffie and pacis to help me with being comfy being in little space with him.

 

Now we have 78 stuffies and 10 pacis xD

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

CUTE!!!

Cuteness and stuffies and you can't go wrong.

 

I'd definitely wait on the paci though, like others have said. She might not want one, it might not be her little age and you don't want to accidentally freak her out or make her feel like she MUST have a paci