How to bring up being in a DD/lg relationship?

[Vigorz]

Hello everyone,

I just made this account so I am fairly new here and fairly new to the whole dd/lg scene.

I need some advice. How do I bring up the topic of DD/lg to my relatively new girlfriend?

She already calls me daddy a lot and in more than just a sexual way. She calls me it as an endearing name as well and I do the same back by calling her babygirl or little one.

I found a BDSM test and we both took it and she got 100% in the girl/boy category lol

Ive asked questions before if she liked the idea of me dressing her up and she got all excited and said yes. And I clarified what I meant by that and she still was excited about. And Ive mentioned buying her a sippy cup and showed her a picture of one I found and again she got really excited and said she wanted it really bad.

I dont think she would be opposed to it but how do i slowly bring things up that I am into to form a sort of DD/lg relationship as an end result? I feel like we are going towards that direction on our own but I guess since I'm fairly new to things, Im shy to express my interests and what I like? Which isn't really like me.

 

Advice?

Any advice is welcomed! I'm excited to be more of a part of the community

[Guest]

It sounds like you guys  are heading in that direction already!!!

If I were you I really wouldn't worry too much, she seems like she is receptive to lifestyle already It is best to just "bite the bullet" and have the conversation flat out.

 

I think the best thing to do, is to do some of your own research. What aspects of DD/LG attract you the most? Write them out or whatever and bring those up to her. I think it is always best to start slow and ease your way into it. Its a trial and error of what will work best for you guys for awhile. I would also suggest, during the conversation, to ask her what she wants as well. I am sure she will be quick to give you a few ideas lol

 

The easiest thing for me personally was writing out rules, that gave us a solid guideline and was pretty fun. Of course over time they will be changed and tailored to better suit you guys.

 

I wish you the best of luck!!!

And just do it!!! I really don't think you will regret it!!!

[xDisturbedWolfx]

Daddy's Pumpkin pretty much laid it out..

As a Daddy myself I would recommend is do your research, look in to all aspects of DDLG get her involved and make it fun and see what she thinks about the different aspects of the DDLG dynamic.

trust me when I say that she will be very receptive of the topic considering the fact that you two are already heading in that direction. there is alot of trial and error to be learned from cause no one or all ways involved with the DDLG dynamic works for everyone, you both have to find your own pace.

 

I can't speak for everyone but most of us here are probably more than willing  to offer words of encouragement and guidance if asked.

I personally hope this helps and works out for you and that you two find what works for the both of you.

feel free to message me and add me as a friend if you have any questions, i don't know everything but i can give you friendship and advice from my experience.

 

Nick.

[Vigorz]

Thank you guys for your replies! I much appreciate it!

I will look more into DDlg and do more research. Ive done a substantial amount so far but more couldn't hurt.

Im still figuring out myself what aspects I like most about ddlg. I mean i gotta know what I like about it specially before I can bring it up with anyway right? haha

Thank you guys again! I added both of you

[Guest]

Good luck!!

[SmokinJ]

I have always been into bdsm and kink.

Me and my daddy have experimented with this a lot.

Ddlg happened on us like it somewhat did on you too.

We called each other daddy and babygirl but that was mostly as far as it went.

Then he started sending me pictures such as little girl coloring books, ddlg quotes, etc.

It got me very excited.

I asked how he was finding all of these things and he said he was using the term ddlg.

As soon as I found out there was an actual name for it I was beyond excited.

I couldn't stop looking up things about it.

It has opened up our ddlg relationship a lot and it continues to grow.

We are both very happy about the place our relationship has went since making that leap into ddlg.

I suggest you just show her a little bit and I'm sure she'll do her own research.

I think a key part is being very open and honest about what it is that interests you and what doesn't.

I still feel embarrassed about bringing some things up to my daddy but he is very understanding.