So daddy dumped me!

[Guest BugBug]

Daddy started being distant and letting me down alot. And then decided he didn't want a little girl anynore. He told me to pack all my toys up too! And then he dumped me by text! After 7mnths together this is how it ended. I am so much happier to be away from him obviously but my little which has always been confident has taken a serious knock. Ive been little sine I was 16 and now im 27 and feel totally lost...advice would be welcome right now.

[Harleykins]

I can't really help other than telling you to keep busy and stay productive. Don't stop practicing self care, no matter how low you feel. Go to work, keep up your hobbies, talk to your friends, try and keep busy and look after yourself.

 

I'm sorry I can't help more than that.

[Guest BugBug]

Thats ok and thank you. Justmin all the time I've been little ive never been told to stop being who I am. It really knocks your confidence.

[little mae]

I'm so Sorry.

I can imagine you are thrown for a loop here, and in a considerable amount of pain.

Don't ever stop being You..

There is Only one of you Alive.

Take good care of all parts that make you you.

I'm sorry BugBug.

You'll get Through this, I just know it.

[littlelili]

I'm sorry to read that.

I know you must feel lost. The most important thing is to keep your head and body busy.

Eat well, workout, look for your family and friends.

Once your head feels better you will be in the best moment for looking for a new *better, awesome* daddy. And he'll be very happy to take good care of you.

Do not rush to find a new one at this moment, as it will be painful for both.

 

Stay strong BugBug

xoxoxo

[Guest TrueDaddy]

I'm sincerely sorry to hear that. I've lost people who were very special to me. So, I can somewhat relate. Harleykins' advice is great, by the way. Regardless of what happens, never stop loving yourself and living life.

[GlitterUnicorn]

Hi :/ I'm so sorry to hear that. Well first of all spend lots of time with your lovely friends! It's very important in a time like this to not be alone. It's nice to be surrounded by people or maybe if you're not much of a people-person, find a hobby and dedicate your time to it! Basically, just keep your time filled with things that you love. I don't think you should start looking for another Daddy just yet. Take your time. Heal. But don't shut down completely either. When the time's right, you'll be ready and you'll know. I hope you're all better soon enough! In fact I know you will be. Us littles are tough cookies       

[DaddySkellington]

“Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along. One day they’ll realize they lost a diamond while playing with worthless stones.”

-Anonymous

 

I have no words of my own because there really are none for this kind of pain. Take this moment of your life and learn from it, grow from it, let it make you stronger. Dont EVER doubt yourself, blame yourself or think any less of yourself. I think of us can agree that you are an AMAZING little and would make any GOOD Daddy so proud to have you. You have more friends than you can imagine in here and we will all lift you up if you fall, let you cry on our shoulder when sad and punch us if you are mad (not in the face) you are loved by everyone just know that. I wish you the best of luck and i send you all my best love and light.

[Guest BugBug]

Hello again everyone, thank your for your kind replies. Well in all honesty its not the end of the relationship that got to me. I actually think it was best and yeah it hurts but im ok now. Its the way in which it was done, just the lack of respect and care. Bearing in mind we have both being in serious relationships before and are mature people I cant believe he dumped me by TEXT!

I mean cowardly or what? Ive bever experienced that before and to say I needed to stop being little was even worse Thats what really got me....has anyone ever had this happen to them? I figured out im not upset by the end of a relationship just they way it ended.

[PrinceDaddy]

A man who would do so low a thing as to dump his little via text is no daddy at all, at least have the decency to tell her face to face if that sad thing is to happen. I'm very sorry you went through this, but I believe that if you keep your mind occupied, you will soon find happiness again, whether that's with another, better daddy, or for yourself. Stay strong, OK?

[littlelili]

He had no right to tell you to stop being a little! Maybe he should think to stop being a daddy because he is not acting like one at all!

[PincessCaitlin]

He had no right to tell you to stop being a little! Maybe he should think to stop being a daddy because he is not acting like one at all!

My ex told me not to be a little but only when I needed it, like when I'm scared and stuff... That was the final nail in the coffin. Plus he was a Dom. Not a daddy.

[Guest BugBug]

Precisely! No one has the right to change you which is which was the final straw for me too but it is the shock that got me. Its scary to think you think you know someone and they will be there and next thing its over and you will never speak again. Massive shock!

[Dragon Child]

A real man doesn't hurt the one he loves most. There's one special person out there for you who will treat you like the most precious of treasures ^u^

[BabygirlElsie]

I'm sorry . That's the worst feeling ever. Especially when the person who does it to u is the center of your world and who you admire the most. I got very sick when mine left, I only ate applesauce for weeks but no matter what you have to try to take care of yourself . It gets easier but everyday it's hard and every day seems like u have nothing to look forward to or anyone who cares or understands. At least u can come on here and get support.

[Mr. Grinch]

Daddy started being distant and letting me down alot. And then decided he didn't want a little girl anynore. He told me to pack all my toys up too! And then he dumped me by text! After 7mnths together this is how it ended. I am so much happier to be away from him obviously but my little which has always been confident has taken a serious knock. Ive been little sine I was 16 and now im 27 and feel totally lost...advice would be welcome right now.

 

Bug Bug that's unfortunate however there is a happy side to this.  He has been letting you down.  That will no longer happen anymore.  Time heals all wounds and soon you will find the daddy that wont let you down.  Best of luck!

[dd.simon.4lg]

Ya know. U shouldn't let it rock your confidence. If he was letting u down n dumped u by text he us the only one losing out

[Guest BugBug]

It is true he is losing out however I do think its very normal to have your confidence shaken (especially when your little) by having someone who is meant to love you treat ypu in such a bad way and reject the very thing tbat males you you. It doesn take time and im on the mend it just isnt so easy to fix the little side when you have had it broken. But its one step at a time!