Vanilla partner & inexperienced lg

[ItsybitsyLilly]

Hello everyone, I just created my profile and have to get used to this website. Hope I do everything correctly.

Soo...my boyfriend and I are together for about 5 months now and still crazy in love. It's just that I feel like I want to explore ddlg even when I don't know exactly what this means to me (as in how important it is for me) since I read a lot about it and sometimes am kind of little but never have had another person support me in it or indulge in it with me.

Sometimes my boyfriend calls me baby girl or doll which is kind of unusual since we're in Germany where it's not a regular endearment and during sex or when I playfully annoy him I get spanked. He comments from time to time that I look very young or that I behave like a child and that he finds it cute. But yesterday for example he nearly caught me suckin my thumb and since he acted strangely I denied it. And when I asked him to go with me to the dentist cause I'm scared he said I wasn't a child anymore. So the signs are really mixed up and subtle hints from my side don't seem to work. Also I'm insecure if he could even take to the role of a daddy since I'm the more responsible and active one.

What are your thoughts on my long ramble?

[Sophie]

I think it should be possible for you to get his thoughts on DD/lg without you having to explicitly tell him it's something you're interested in. Just make it look like it's something you randomly saw online, then make a quick comment about it, and see how he responds.

 

It doesn't sound like he would be into it though, and even if he was, I don't think introducing DD/lg into your relationship is something you should do unless you're 100% certain that it's something you need. You should figure yourself out first and what you want, before you make any decisions that could potentially ruin your loving vanilla relationship.

 

It's just that I feel like I want to explore ddlg even when I don't know exactly what this means to me (as in how important it is for me) since I read a lot about it and sometimes am kind of little but never have had another person support me in it or indulge in it with me.

 

You can always make little/daddy friends on here, and be little without fear of being judged. Your boyfriend doesn't have to be the only person to support you in being little.

[ItsybitsyLilly]