Daddy has a new little ;(

[Asmariea]

I am very sad. My Daddy has found a new little. I am still his princess, and he said that I will always be his princess and he will take care of me, but because of this new little I no longer get sexual interaction with Daddy. I am very upset about this. I feel she is trying to have a relationship with Daddy and shes gonna take him away from me. They were going to go out on a date, Daddy has yet to take me out. I feel like she is manipulating him already. He said that he will not play favorites, But because He is withholding sex from me, because the other little is not ready for sex, That he is already playing favorites. He promises that is not true, but because I have been so let down in the past I have a hard time believing him. He is still there for me emotionally, which is nice, but I miss our fun time.

[cutie_patootie]

I am so sorry to hear that this is happening to you but this is exactly why I will never get involved with anyone whose profile states in an open relationship.  For me, that is a deal breaker as I can only be involved in a monogamous relationship.  I realise that some people can handle open relationships and can make them work quite well but I know too many people who have been hurt within an open relationship so it's definitely not for me.

 

Having said that, I sincerely hope that you are able to resolve the issues between you and your Daddy openly and honestly.  If not, it might be better for you to try and find a Caregiver who is monogamous and respects his little's needs. 

[Guest cookie_crumble_princess]

I am worried for you in this situation because you don't seem to even want poly or an open relationship. You should ask yourself if you want this. No excuses of whom else it would make happy. Then go to your daddy as an adult and express how you really feel. As a new little and a sub myself I feel for you. Being new we don't know how every thing works or what to do and being a sub our first reaction is to agree and go along with what is said. Please remember you always have a right to change your mind, re-access an agreement and go to your Daddy Dom with how you feel. Pleasing a daddy is very important, but being happy in our relationship is even more so. You and your daddy should realize that your sexual needs and desires are not connected to his new little. You function as individuals in your relationship, you have your own wants and needs. 

 

*hugs* I hope you get this worked out. You have my support if you need it. 

[MadameButterfly]

This makes me sad. I don't know how people do an open relationship. I definitely wouldn't want to share my daddy with anyone else.

[Guest buddhagirl]

Yuck. I'm sorry this is happening for you. Daddy's don't just get to do whatever they want so I hope that what is happening has been mutually agreed upon by all parties. Please be sure you have healthy boundaries and that you are protecting them. 

[Asmariea]

I Did agree that he could see other girls, he says I can see other men, but I don't want too. However I did not agree to another little. That makes me mad. I am fairly sure after our conversation last night that he doesn't want me to be his little anymore. I agree about my sexual needs, and it being me and him in our relationship and him and his little in theirs. Maybe I just need to find a new Daddy, which makes me sad.

Edited April 20, 2016 by Asmariea

[Sydsyd666]

Hello, Asmariea.

I sent you a friend request, if that's cool. Come say hi and we can talk about your scenario if you need some advice.