Much older daddies!

[redruffle41]

Yes!!!! Oldeeeeer. Please, if I'm gonna submit to someone I have to actually FEEL subby around them. Age helps with that. It's not a guarantee but it helps. I tend to value experience, intelligence, confidence, and stability in a partner. That's much easier to find in an older guy. At the very least the same age as me. 

[Baby Manda]

1 hour ago, redruffle41 said:

Yes!!!! Oldeeeeer. Please, if I'm gonna submit to someone I have to actually FEEL subby around them. Age helps with that. It's not a guarantee but it helps. I tend to value experience, intelligence, confidence, and stability in a partner. That's much easier to find in an older guy. At the very least the same age as me. 

I agree older CAN help, IF they have their life figured out and together... but I don't think age should be a limiting factor either. Once I passed 28 I kinda just became an "adult"(full-time job with benefits, daughter in school and after school activities, single Mom crushing it in a routine!) Any partners I had after that needed to have things figured out or else I ran the show. A lot of single men in my real life are single because they don't know how to be responsible and respectful in a relationship.  Once I learned I was a little it finally made sense why these relationships failed so badly, but it has nothing to do with the actual age-gap and more to do with the person. I think the desire in me for an older man has always been about my desire for a Daddy Dom, but I didn't have the words. Now that I have the words, the age isn't as important.