Daddys and Littles -Beyond *What,* Rules.....

[little mae]

To-littles- how does having rules make you feel.

 

♡♡♡ Both for Littles and Daddys. ♡♡♡

 

-Daddys, how does making, keeping rules for your little one make you feel.

 

For those not yet in a Dd/lg relationship, what do you think your rules will make you Feel.

[BabyGirlBkitsune]

Rules for me personally make me feel little and big at the same time....i dunno if that makes sense. hehe. it gives me structure. and it gives me opportunities to make my daddy proud,but also makes opportunities for me to be naughty too,lol 

[Guest cookie_crumble_princess]

I love chores, even the ones I hate, based on the fact that my (future) daddy gave them to me, i love them. I tend to over think things and come up with grander and more elaborate plans than necessary. Rules and chores given by my CG/DD keeps my mind mellow and on task. Knowing that following the rules  will make Daddy happy and proud of me, it makes me want to hug everything around me and makes me proud of myself. Also, rules keep me in little space. I can pout and grumble while I wash the dishes. When it's time to change the water I hop, jump and skip through the kitchen waiting for the dish pan to fill, once its finished then its back to work - making daddy pleased.

 

A big bonus for me is following the rules (I can't help it, I'm a good girl) then getting on with my more detailed and grander plans.

Daddy may have only told me to wash the dishes, but I am going to scrub the heck out of the cabinet doors and maybe get a picture colored too, if I can manage it.

Edited April 16, 2016 by baby_squirrel

[Guest buddhagirl]

My Daddy's rules make me feel safe and secure. They give me boundaries--which I'm not always good at--and show me that I'm worth protecting. Daddy's enforcement of my rules is a reassuring reminder that I am his. Daddy tends to be a relaxed Daddy, but knows I need the rules to be happy. Just last night I asked him to tell me my rules just to feel happy, safe and loved. 

[Simong4]

From a daddy perspective, having rules is all about love and protection. Protection can come in the form of safety rules, like obeying traffic laws, and whatnot. But there are other safety rules like always letting your daddy know where you are when you are not together.

 

Since my major roles include nurturing, mentoring and guiding, I would find being a daddy difficult without rules. For example, how can I be proud of you and reward you when you meet or exceed expectations?