I Need Some Advice...

[Princess Ruth]

Okay so this is kinda DDLG related and because all of my real life friends are pretty fed up with all this guy's bull shit. 

 

Okay so my ex-daddy broke up with me late February about a week later I met this guy, let's call him A. So we met up at a park near my house and we really hit it off. About a week after we met we kissed, i'm not sure if it was because I just had my heart broken or what but I thought we really hit it off and we could potentially be something. He is completely my type, sweet, smart, funny, hardworking, and that perfect level of bad-ass-ness that makes the girls weak. So we'd planned on hanging out one day but he completely blew me off. I was really upset and ended up doing other stuff, he hit me up a few days later telling me he broke his phone when he fell off his friends motorcycle and had been in the hospital. He didn't have a phone for a while so we were messaging on snap chat. We did that maybe three days before he completely stopped talking to me. He basically would open my messages but not respond and I could see all of this. So two days ago he got a new phone and he posted about on snap chat, being the weak little fuck I am I sent him a text. I just said "hi it's Ruth" so we talked for a bit and he said he wanted to make it up to me about ghosting me and being an ass hat. He stopped responding after a while, any way I sent him a super long message today basically just telling him how I feel and that I really needed to get it off my chest before I go to my high schools prom tomorrow night so I can actually focus on having fun at prom instead of obsessing over this guy. 

 

I have a feeling he's going to ghost me again and I don't know if I want to go through all this shit again. The real question I have for you guys that I need advice on is should I give him another chance or should i give up. I met a potential Daddy on this forum and I do really like him but I don't know what to do

 

PLEASE HELP!!!

[Guest]

Which one of the two men mentioned provides for your emotional well being? That's your answer.

[Guest GrapeApe]

He does sound like an ass hat.  You would prob be better off spending your time and energy somewhere else.

 

It's not worth thinking about someone who does not return or share those thoughts.

[Komorebi]

I have to wonder "why" he does it, is there a legitimate reason, or is he simply an ass? personally I would corner him and ask him point black what he is doing. if his answer satisfies you than you know what to do, if it does not or he screws up again than the best thing would be to walk away. 

[doll face]

Believe me. From experience, this guy is probably a player. When someone genuinely cares then you don't feel the need to be insecure. Go with your heart. Xx ❤️

[flowerfairy]

Its super hard when you start to trust people and they cut you off, i know it hurts but it really isnt worth it, Its not worth the worry but i know thats alot easier said than done

[Guest daddy'ssweetpea]

well i think he has proven himself and you should get out fast before you get too attached. take some time for you re discover yourself and what you want then start the daddy search.

[Harleykins]

I wouldn't get attached to someone who picks you up and drops you at will. It's a waste of your time and your emotional energy. You're better than that. I'd get out and stay out as soon as you can and stay away from this guy. He sounds like a big pile of manipulative bad vibes and nobody needs that in their life.

[Guest Cherrylolita7]

He sounds like a total tool, don't go back to someone like that he doesn't deserve you or your heart and time, the longer you stay with someone like that the less you will see how amazing you are, and you don't want that you want someone who can make you feel like your the prettiest girl in the world.

[DaddySkellington]

Run for the Hills !! My guess is that the only reason you are even still contemplating being with the very ungentlemanly "A" is because you hate the idea of being alone more then the way "A" disrespects you. "A" seems to care less of your feelings for him and more about just keeping you interested enough to keep manipulating you, while i am sure he is preying on others at the same time. To him it is just a game. None of these actions are that of a true Daddy.

 

Trust me we have all been there and perceived loneliness is a horrible thought to bear and what co-dependent relationships are unhealthily built on and even I have had my fair share of  them. So my advice "GIRL!,Throw him in da gutter and go find anotha" LOL, move on, lesson learned, build from it, make all of this make you better, stronger and wiser. Do not be in any hurry to find another Daddy, slow down and breath, then move forward. You have all of us here to support and offer all of our strength, advice, light, love, hugs and snuggles until you do find the Daddy you deserve. Good Luck !

[Guest Melbourne Daddy]

Believe me the guy that blew you off will do it again, probably more than once. You have told him how you feel and he now thinks he has you whenever he wants you.

 

You're worth so much more than that so if I were you I'd ditch him and save yourself a lot of grief !