Anyone starting to question this lifestyle? Just kinda wanted to know...

[SexyDaddy_4U]

Seriously, though. I kinda am and I'm wondering if anyone else here is.

[Mr. Grinch]

Why would we be second guessing DDLG?  I guess there are possible reason for second guessing but if that's the case DDLG isn't for you or there isn't the level of communication and trust between you and your little.  Would you be so kind as to explain yourself? 

[jellicle baby]

if there's one thing in my life that I really am confident in, and in myself, its this lifestyle. I think it may be the one thing I am totally sure of.

[tarnished_angel]

I question myself more than the lifestyle..am I too old..would a Daddy want a bigger little.. Also the fact that I have been a single mother to my 2kids for the past 22 yrs..means I'm questioning a lot in my life

[Guest]

People change. Don't ever let someone tell you differently. You just may be transitioning into something different. If it's not in you, it's not in you. In my opinion, it sounds like emotionally you've already left the lifestyle. Don't you think you should be happy? Do what makes you happy. You'll live longer.

[doll face]

I question everything. Xx. I trust no one or nothing.

[Guest cookie_crumble_princess]

I'm very solid in my belief that DDlg is for me. You're a daddy and I can see where some questions may come in. Littles get a lot of the care and support they need. Are you feeling as though you don't get enough support?. Explaining why you're questioning the life style will provide a  better understanding of your situation. More people may even agree with you on whatever particular aspect(s) is turning you away from DDlg.

[daddyslilpeach]

After a bad experience I questioned it. But after meeting my current and forever Daddy a year ago, I couldn't be more sure of that fact I want to be his little Peach for life. 

[DaddyJ]

I'd be curious to know more about the reasons which motivated this topic, we could have attempted to address this more thoroughly if specific issues had been raised. 

 

In my own case I'm certain that the cg/l dynamic meets my most inner self and I can't accept any other way of relating with a partner. It's somewhat to be expected that if you post here, most of the responses will be in support of the lifestyle. However, like many I also agree it's healthy to take a critical view or to assess your situation from time to time.

 

If the uncertainty comes from specific things in your relationship, then it's in your power to address them. The cg/l lifestyle encompasses broad and diverse ways of doing things, the dynamic you build with a partner will be what's right for both of you and no-one else. If the uncertainty is about whether you even want to continue in the lifestyle or not, then that can only be decided by looking at your personal circumstances and deciding what feels right. Either way you should try to stay true to yourself and the kinds of relationship you want.

Edited April 19, 2016 by DaddyJ

[Guest Elencha]

It's a very vague question. Questioning its existence? Its right or wrongness? Its feasibility? Whether it is for you? What are you really asking?