Not wanting to be little anymore?

[DaddysLolita]

Have any of you ever experienced this or have you gone through phases where you don't want to be little anymore?

[Guest Lovesdaddy1972]

Yes. This last week I wish that I wasn't and that I didn't even know anything about it.

[Edhavokk]

I guess sometimes people grow up , that or they get (stupidly) bullied for it or some other reason , talk to someone about it, most people will understand you and there's a whole community that can help , after all no one Is forcing you to be a little so you can do whatever your comfortable with x

[Nathlana Kittensoul]

That ^^^^

 

I have been feeling little for my longest ever stretch of time. I think because I finally have someone to nurture that side of me. But there will be times when I just don't feel like being little. Daddy will always be Daddy but he'll just be Daddy to a grown up me until I feel like being little again.

 

It's okay to phase in and out of being little. It's okay to not want to be little anymore at all. Whatever you feel, it's okay. Just be open and honest with your partner about how you feel and try not to be hard on yourself. You're allowed to feel however it is that you feel. The best thing about DDlg is that it allows you to embrace your inner you, who you really are inside. So embrace that inner you even when she isn't feeling so little!

[Sunflower]

I am not little 24/7. It is only one dynamic for me. Overall, I'm basically submissive, so being little is what I need sometimes. However, I also like pain (not just spankings) and bondage, which frighten some littles. I don't think that I'm a true switch and vastly prefer dominant men and women, but I have had a couple very specific fantasies about very specific submissive men.

 

When I have days that I don't want to be little, I don't sweat it. If I woke up one morning and never wanted to be little again, it would be okay, too.

[TurtleTheKittenTamer]

That ^^^^

I have been feeling little for my longest ever stretch of time. I think because I finally have someone to nurture that side of me. But there will be times when I just don't feel like being little. Daddy will always be Daddy but he'll just be Daddy to a grown up me until I feel like being little again.

It's okay to phase in and out of being little. It's okay to not want to be little anymore at all. Whatever you feel, it's okay. Just be open and honest with your partner about how you feel and try not to be hard on yourself. You're allowed to feel however it is that you feel. The best thing about DDlg is that it allows you to embrace your inner you, who you really are inside. So embrace that inner you even when she isn't feeling so little! 

 

Beautiful heartfelt post kitten.