Figuring out my Little side

[Beaunicorn]

Hello everyone. I'm new here but I guess I've been a little into hiding for quite some time - which scares me to be honest.

I'm 19 and have always been very sensitive and into childish stuff. I can never pass through a toy aisle without touching and reading stuff (which gets strange looks), I collect stuffies, I love games and cartoons. I crave rules and structure and feel like I need to give someone else the power to make decisions most of the time - I'm easily overwhelmed. I like being taken care of and nurtured and that's one of the reasons my previous relationships bothered me. It didnt feel enough. I've liked reading about dd/lg relationships for a while now though I didnt know exactly what it was until I researched.

I am trying to embrace this part of me but I feel like I will be judged and I get anxious about it.

 

Could you guys share some stories about how you figured out you were littles/daddies/mommies and maybe some advice?

 

Thank you!

Edited April 12, 2016 by Beaunicorn

[little squidly]

The best advice I can give you is to just let go and be yourself. Don't worry about how you look or how people perceive you... What matters is what YOU think and how YOU feel. Anyone who genuinely loves you will see that side of you and be completely accepting or understanding.

 

I used to be so concerned with others' opinions because I'm so often called "weird" or get stares in public for being ME and expressing myself. Now, I dress and act little whenever I'm feeling like it and I dash for the toy section when I visit the store. I'm happier than ever because I'm focused on me and not everyone else. That's the most important thing you can do for yourself. Let your little side run free!!!

[MiniMoon]

Hello Beaunicorn, all I can say is like the person above just said is to be yourself but most importantly love who you are and accept that part of you and don't be ashamed of it. Like today, I was in the store getting all types of looks from other  people but Idc and I don't pay attention to how others perceive me. I just kept doing what I was doing. In this world, people are going to either love who you are or hate who you are. But, you have to love who you are.     

Edited April 16, 2016 by MiniMoon

[Beaunicorn]

Thank you so much, everyone. It will be a process and it wont be easy but I'm willing to let go a little more