meanie?

[momokitten13]

so i had a daddy and we were together for about a month ( which is usually as long as most of my relationships  ) so i would notice that he wouldnt want to call me as often and only wanted to videochat when he wanted playtime, i didnt think anything of it because i thought he actually cared about me... about a week before we broke up, i figured out that he has been flirting and talking to other people.. itd be different if we were in an open relationship but we werent and i confronted him and he said that im being too clingy and im over reacting that i need to calm down and i was being a bad boy... i told him that im really hurt by his actions and i thought he was my daddy and i was his only little, i told him i only wanted to be with him if he would only want to be with me, he said he loved me and he would always have time for me and care for me but that obviously wasnt true... am i over reacting? i dunno this happened  about 2 months ago but i havent been able to trust any other daddy/mommy ...

[Sophie]

You aren't over reacting. He sounds like trash and you deserved better than that. You should cut off all communication with him (if there is any) and let yourself heal and move on.

 

Not all Daddies/Mommies are like that, and I'm sure you'll find someone much better for you. You need to always remember to judge people by what they do, not what they say. It's clear by his actions that he didn't love you. Try your best to not give him any thought because he just isn't worth it at this point.

[momokitten13]

You aren't over reacting. He sounds like trash and you deserved better than that. You should cut off all communication with him (if there is any) and let yourself heal and move on.

 

Not all Daddies/Mommies are like that, and I'm sure you'll find someone much better for you. You need to always remember to judge people by what they do, not what they say. It's clear by his actions that he didn't love you. Try your best to not give him any thought because he just isn't worth it at this point.

its okie i blocked him and deleted his number and everything  im trying to heal but i just already have trust issues so its very hard for me to be in a relationship in the first place im still a bit upset by all of this..

[MellyBoo19912015]

I can say hand on heart not all Bigs are like that. Sounds like you had a bad pick of the bunch there. It's gonna take time and you will heal but please don't give up.

[momokitten13]

I can say hand on heart not all Bigs are like that. Sounds like you had a bad pick of the bunch there. It's gonna take time and you will heal but please don't give up.

im trying not too i know they're are other people nicer but i guess im bad at trusting the right people

[Guest littlemissbri]

It can be very hard to trust people in general. Adding on that that happened and that there can sometimes be an inherent power imbalance in a Big/little relationship you have to be even more careful. There are tons of genuinely good Bigs out there and you will find one but it might take time. You just have to try and keep your mind open to the possibilities while still being cautious. We littles tend to feel everything very strongly and that can make for lots of pain but it also means that when we find what's right it feels even better. You just have to try and keep hope up until you find that one

[Guest LavanderRabbit]

I'm sorry to hear this happened. Sadly this thing is very common today and I find it terrible! I can understand it'll take some time to trust another, but it's good to take your time with relationships. I didn't get into DD/lg right away when I first met my Daddy, in fact he was the one to introduce me into it. The bond between a little and their Caregiver is very important and trust is needed in any relationship. I know you'll find someone who will love and take care of you like a real Caregiver and not just treat you like that. It's just a matter of finding the right one. In the mean time, the community is here for you and I know everything will be okay