Mommies

[COLGkenny]

It's just so hard to find a mommy. Every time I start to talk to a little they treat me as a daddy. All I want is to be cared for and loved on and it just seems like no mommy wants me....what do I do?

[Little.Wolf]

Keep your head up and don't get discouraged. The right one will show up when it's the right time.

[Sophie]

I'll bet it's tough finding a Mommy given how rare they are in the community. Have you thought about being with a switch with a mommy side? Switches are much more common, though you might have to be comfortable with the fact that they explore their submissive side with someone else at some point (if you aren't able to deal with that side of their personality).

[COLGkenny]

I'd be willing to try...but I don't know how to go about so ding one...

[sushishui]

I recently read a survey of the BDSM community as a whole, which said that there were roughly twenty male subs for every one female domme (as opposed to roughly one female sub for every one male dom). I don't know the numbers in the DD/lg community, but it wouldn't surprise me if they're similar.

 

It can be difficult to find a domme, but I have seen it happen for those who are patient and open and don't let the search get them down. Hang in there, and do consider switches, as Sophie said.

[Rain]

To be honest I just combed through the personals looking for boys who wanted a mama. I'm a switch and more focused on care taking than dominating so that narrows it down even more. Maybe your missing your mommy just as easily as she is missing you? Just a thought from the other side