Is it unusual that I'm older than my daddy?

[Josh's little girl]

My fiance is 8 yrs younger than me and we have been dabbling in the Ddlg I just feel odd with me being the older one. Then on top of it we both have kids. How can we bring this lifestyle into our already lives? Is it possible??? I really enjoy it just question feel odd?

[Little.Wolf]

There is no age on ddlg, you can be older or younger then your SO and yes it is possible with kids, just have to find what works with you.

[Guest BrattyQueen]

I'm older than my daddy by almost two years its nothing to worry about! As long as you and he are happy that's all that matters! It is definitely possible with kids I know quite a few people on here that have children and live the lifestyle. You'll find a balance you just have to work at it a little!

[Michael]

It's fine. Him being younger doesn't make him any less of a Daddy Dom.

[Guest buddhagirl]

It doesn't matter one bit. My daddy is 9 years younger than me and we both brought two kids to are marriage and relationship. It doesn't affect our ddlg dynamic. Don't sweat it and pretty soon you won't even think about it. At least, that is what I found.

[Josh's little girl]

Thanks. Makes me feel a lot better knowing that I'm the only one. He has done this before and I'm new to it and I'm just wanting to know more of what I'm getting into our guess!

[Guest hislittlestar22]

I'm older than my Daddy too! (but only by a month and a half heehee)

 

I'd say if you're having trouble fitting in ddlg into your already hectic lives, maybe schedule some "little dates" with your daddy. This could be times when the kids are at friends' houses or with another parent, when it's just you two. You could watch a cartoon with little snacks and a special blankie, go to the zoo or the park, anything that makes you feel little and gives your daddy an excuse to treat you like a princess. That way you can both relax in the ddlg dynamic and make it about him being the strong daddy and you the precious little, without worries about age, it's just about the dynamic between the two of you, your needs, and being happy/comfortable.

[Guest SaladHater]

the oldest women ive been with was 20 years older than me lol so a couple years is really nothing.

[Guest cookie_crumble_princess]

I don't see how his age will affect your relationship when it comes to ddlg. He's already proven he is a good companion or you wouldn't want to marry him, right? He's been supporting you, caring for you and keeping you happy, in every capacity that counts within your relationship. Aren't these the reasons and then some that you want to marry him. Don't listen to all the hoopla surrounding ages. You've found your gem, keep him, enjoy him, and grow with him. I wish you both the best. 

 

Sorry, I have no advice for how to incorporate it into your life with kids. HislittleStar had some great suggestions. 

[confusedunicorn]

I don't see how age and having kids would affect a dd/lg XD It's not weird at all!

[Guest Jennyanydots]

Is it unusual? Yeah. Does it matter?.... only if it matters to you. Take a realistic look at your relationship without your rose-colored love-glasses on and ask what the potential downside could be. If you can live with that then you have nothing to worry about. I think the biggest pitfall is social validation. People hate everything that puts their own life in question, so couples with an age gap do get some looks. If you need valideation by the publicn look elsewhere...

 

My mum is 10 years older than her husband. I have no interest in knowing whether they are kinky or how, but their vanilla relationship works. I've not known anyone to make any comments about their age difference.

[Josh's little girl]

Your right we are very happy and love everything about each other. Thanks everyone for the great advice :-)!!!