Guest QueenEnby Posted March 27, 2016 Report Posted March 27, 2016 Hello, everybody! So I've recently gotten into a long distance ddlg relationship and I, personally, am grey-asexual (sometimes sex repulsed/not interested in sexy time things). Sir asked me to find some rules and punishments that wouldn't make me uncomfortable (SFW ones) and I was wondering if I could have your help? thankies! ~Queenie
Little.Wolf Posted March 27, 2016 Report Posted March 27, 2016 Well with punishment meant to be uncomfortable/teach a lesson what are some things that would work? For you personally? Some ideas could be Written lines, Public apology (kik, skype, email, etc), corner time, some form of isolation/caging, another good one that could be done anywhere is your Sir expressing disappointment, body writing as a reminder (where it's hidden but you'd see/know it was there. Just some ideas. Not knowing your life/schedule I can't give good ideas without more info lol.
Guest QueenEnby Posted March 27, 2016 Report Posted March 27, 2016 "uncomfortable" meaning sexual rules/punishments which could possibly make me upset
Little.Wolf Posted March 27, 2016 Report Posted March 27, 2016 "uncomfortable" meaning sexual rules/punishments which could possibly make me upset I see. Hmm. -Edging and Denial -Pain & Forced Pleasure combo -Anal stimulation (plugs and such) -Nipple/Breast pain/stimulation -The usual spanking (Find an implement that makes you nervous) -Body writing Just a small list to help I hope. And of course you can work it to fit your lifestyle directly.
Guest QueenEnby Posted March 27, 2016 Report Posted March 27, 2016 I meant sexual things make me uncomfy bc im often sex repulsed so im trying to find SFW ones
Guest QueenEnby Posted March 27, 2016 Report Posted March 27, 2016 I can 10000000% help! There are some super duper good resources here on rules already (in the forum index), but I think that your SFW rules are a great idea! (Here's a topic specificially for "Digital Rules" https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4140-digital-rulesconsequences-public-discipline/ ) Some basic rules that are SFW that I can think of are: Bedtimes (e.g. you must go to bed at x time) Taking care of yourself/pets (e.g. you must shower every x days, brush your teeth, brush your hair, feed your pets, etc.) Call your partner x names Sleep with x stuffie Thanks a bunch diana!
LittleGlenn Posted March 27, 2016 Report Posted March 27, 2016 You can come up with a lot of punishments that are non-sexual! from the top of my head: Extra chores, Writing lines, Extra day to the gym (if you skip one for example), no unhealthy snacks for X amount of time, Earlier bed time for a day ( or more days ). Just a few suggestions .
Little.Wolf Posted March 27, 2016 Report Posted March 27, 2016 Early bedtime No new treats or stuffies Extra chores Lines Corner time (depending on age) Grounding Inability to use household furniture I apologize I misunderstood your past earlier
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