Daddy emotions

[IkumiKao]

As some of you may be aware im going through some stuff and am seeking support from everyone, I was wondering, In peoples experiences, i have some questions.

as littles and caregivers we all know there is such a deep bond between CG and L if not more than vanilla love than atleast on another level of love, there is certainly the romantic aspect but then there is the dynamic and D/S relationship. what i dont understand is how a little can truly love her Daddy and be devoted to him, rely on him, trust him want to please him be good for him, to truly be the little for Daddy and love Daddy not just as a partner but as a Daddy then just up and leave with no thought? i feel as if this goes greatly against any sort of D/S relationship, its not something you can just drop, bonds are made on a deeper level than what you can with only a romantic aspect, in my opinion..., so how can that bond be there as a little and have the reliability on your Daddy and then just ditch for another Daddy and somehow trust them?

[Pure Heart Dom]

Hello there friend, I thought I'd comment on your thread, if you don't mind. Unfortunately, I really can't answer your question. As this has happened to me, but in a way more bizarre way than I could've ever anticipated lol. Much like yourself, I was left broken up and even to this day I am maimed in my perceptions of interpersonal bonding and relationships. I resonate with you on so many levels my friend; you treat your little and regard her as the world, only to be dealt betrayal, heartbreak, and sadness

I really wish I could provide you some solace and answer your question, even for myself. But unfortunately, I can't. I wish you luck in finding an answer, and if/when you do share your wisdom with me if you don't mind ^×^

Feel free to hit me up if you want to talk or have any questions. Take care!

[IkumiKao]

I dont mind at all, the more the merrier, thats why Im posting

Thanks Pure Heart, Will do friend, I would love to help anyone when I can and through what i am learning, would love to be able to use that to talk with and to others. 

All we seek is answers which we deserve and to be denied that can hurt so much. The amount of times I have Questioned things and myself in my hurts. pitty, or turning it on myself i am slowly coming to realise its not me, or product of something caused by me, some people are broken and no matter how much you mend them or fix them, they can be selfish people and use your help to make them feel better which in turn gives you a false security. I still do not understand how a little could do that, its so much of a bond, and goes against some of the fundamental elements in which we practice and participate in D/S relationships. I think the non sexual aspects to it goes deepest. I hope to one day find out what the psychology is of it so that i may come to understand for myself and to help others. If there is anyone that can provide some insight i would be very happy to here from you.

[Mojojojo1978]

I am new to the DDlg relationship, but I have been in other relationships that ended badly, for me. People are hard to figure out really. I am with you, how can someone who claims to love you, just leave or be with another person and you. That is the most horrible feeling. But it all depends on the people. I think there are some people that are just out there for their own satisfaction. They don't care who they hurt, as long as they get what they want. Sadly to say I was married to someone like that. Then I got divorced and now I am with someone who truly loves me. She is my lg. And I love being her daddy. I understand what you are going thru. It's not easy. But sometimes you get your heart torn out and then someone much better comes along and heals it for you and more. Don't give up.

I hope you find the comfort and information you need on this forum.