Feeling more Little/Little at all?

[Guest lizzybell]

Hiyo eseryone,

 

 

         I've been having a hard time trying to feel "more little", or even to feel little at all.

 

     Lately I've been dealing with some really stressful stuff (problems with my personal living arrangement, and also some minor financial problems), and it's had me farther away from little state than ever before - And usually those were a stretch to begin with. Before these problems sprang up, I would slip into little space on a rare occasion, but it didn't feel very deep or engrossing, I never did really lose myself into it (like I want to) and now I can't seem to find it at all. When I do reach little state nowadays, It seems to be so short lived - like 5 - 15 minutes before I get kicked back into the real world.

 

     I has a wonderful Kitty(Daddy) that has been trying to help me find my little space by giving me drinks in my juice juice/baba, having me suck on my paci, giving me diapers/changies, and even bringing me my stuffies to interact with (my poor, yonly stuffies  ).  None of this has really helped me reach little state, even though I am usually the one requesting to be diapered and/or have my juice juice/paci.

 

 

So long story short, I really want to feel little again, and properly so. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to be little more often/stay little?

[Beau-Bear]

Hello! I'm a little and I have a couple of ideas. Do you have any little friends? If you do, invite them around for a playdate. It helped me out a lot. Sometimes you may just feel down. Maybe tell a friend. They may be able to care for you so that its someone else taking care of you, rather than the same person all the time.

[BlueEyesAndAll]

Like feeling submissive, feeling little comes and goes for me. I realized recently that I slip into a little mindset most often when things are calm and comfortable and not stressful. It was a big deal to me to realize that this has been happening for years, it just has a name now. I've been dealing with some major grown up issues lately, and recovering from a major issue with Daddy and haven't felt little as often as I would like, but it's getting better with time. I like it alot when Daddy enforces the rules, so I was happy when he got me a special punishment book to write lines in this week for missing my bedtime:) When your life has settled down a bit, hopefully your little side will come out more often again.

[Guest MissBehaving]

Hi lizziebell,

 

I'm sorry to hear that you've been finding it hard to get into your little space. It can be tough especially if you have demands in your life that require you to be an adult, as those stressors are very much at odds with being a carefree little. I can only imagine that this is even more frustrating when you already find it hard to get into little space.

 

I've been under a lot of stress lately too and haven't felt happy or relaxed enough to get that little time to myself. I would say though that it's probably not going to be very effective to try and push yourself into feeling it if you're just not. How about look at it from the other side...try and eliminate anything that's stopping you getting there? so if that's living arrangements or financial problems like you mentioned, if you can improve those situations, at all or at least specify times you will deal with those things and worry about them. I know that sounds weird but if you have worries that are on your mind a lot it can help to say "right I'll do what I can about this monday to friday then I'm giving myself the weekend off" or you know, whatever schedule works for you?

 

So basically just eliminating any negative things and giving yourself the time and space that you're allowed to be completely relaxed... creating the right environment should you happen to feel like expressing your little side that day.

 

Just a couple of ideas anyway, hope you find something that helps!

 

Missy x