How do you behave in public?

[LittleGirlEmilia]

I'm genuinely curious, do you behave the same way you do in private? Or even sometimes a slip up in front of friends? Do you get any questions/crazy looks if you do? 

 

Or if you have anything relating to this topic, please tell me more ^^

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

It depends on the setting and the situation. I have a very child-like personality as it is and the only comments I've gotten from people were, "You remind me of a little girl" but crazy looks? No, not that I've noticed. I don't pay too much attention to other people when I'm in public

[Guest Pixystix]

For me it really depends on the situation as well, I can adult but I also have a child like personality. I have been known for squeeking loudly and getting very excited when I find something I like. I try and be more mature when Im out but my little side dose pop out. I also have been known to make random noises from time to time and get the wtf look from people

[LittleGirlEmilia]

What both of you just described is me too, I can relate to always being childlike and excited by things. But I haven't really thought anything of it until recently and I feel like I'm sub-consciously trying be more adult so people don't think I'm weird, if that makes sense >.< There was a checkout girl giving out free lollipops at the till and when I asked for one (politely) she made me feel like I shouldn't have asked for one. 

 

I've just been feeling more aware of it since and it really sucks because I don't feel like me outside. It's really complicated to explain so I hope I made sense >.<

 

Thank you for answering my question <3

[DaddysLolita]

I'm becoming more open in public. I get excited when I see something I like. Drag Daddy to look at stuffies and toys, frequent build a bear.... I have been known to call him Daddy in public....it just depends.

[LittleGirlEmilia]

I'm becoming more open in public. I get excited when I see something I like. Drag Daddy to look at stuffies and toys, frequent build a bear.... I have been known to call him Daddy in public....it just depends.

 

We're all so similar xD I do that too. 

 

Do you two have mutual friends that you hang around with?

[DaddysLolita]

We're all so similar xD I do that too. 

 

Do you two have mutual friends that you hang around with?

I wish! That's the goal of being here but so far we haven't had any luck in finding a solid couple to hang out with.

 

Lots of mutual friends, so far away

[Guest Andrew10]

I would say do what makes you happy, and feels comfortable. If people give you odd looks for being a happy and yourself, then forget them, they are not you and they just don't understand, and unfortunately some people are close minded to the things that they don't understand. Just be yourself and do what ever makes you happy!

[Guest cookie_crumble_princess]

I feel the need to adult up (like putting on a costume) when I go out in public. I have social anxiety and can become stressed, sometimes grumpy and rush to find things as fast as possible so I can leave. I don't like be alone in crowds. If the store is fairly empty or my (biological) mom is with me I tend to follow her and relax enough to look at toys and interesting products. 

 

At work I'm a little different, I can be little me a bit more freely without people knowing. You can catch me reading the children's books and being in my own little world. My co-workers give me noms, so I'm pretty happy. I often have to curb the need to gallop through work, instead I wear boots with click clack heels and will dance or run in place.

 

If I am at a play place for children I maintain my adult act until I purchase coins and count out the right amounts. After that I'm completely at my little age. I take off my shoes, run around. Stare into the candy case and have been known to beg and promise things for more coins to play games.

[Guest Elencha]

I'm me all the time. The biggest concession I make, I think, is trying not to sing in public. This generally ends in fail. There is of course a requirement at times to do some adult-type stuff, I do work in accounting after all, but frankly I anybody who has a problem with me decorating my office with kid stuff can bite me. I am, at least, considerate enough to shut my office door if I'm going to put on Harry Potter filk and try to sing quietly enough that it can't be heard though the walls.

I do get the looks when I'm feeling extra silly, but generally I find that I make people smile with my silliness. 

 

Hmm.. Come to think of it, I guess my realization that there is no way to listen to Defying Gravity quietly enough to be work appropriate is a bit of a concession, too...

 

On a slightly related note, Squirrel, I've been meaning to tell you how much I love that siggie. I got Oreos for my birthday, so that will be me all day! 

[lilstrawberrie]

I'm really shy so I tend to just be very quiet in public. I do tend to get very giddy when I see something I really love like cats, certain toys or even just food. I don't really say anything "little related" out loud though. If I do call my boyfriend Daddy in public, it's usually only loud enough for him to hear.

[Guest Jennyanydots]

I never behave hahaha

 

Honestly though, I get so caught up in my own mind and thoughts that I have a tendency to say some pretty crazy stuff and I doubt anyone who knows me thinks twice about what I do or say anymore...

[jellicle baby]

We probably get strange looks when my daddy pinches me or smacks my butt or grabs my arm hard when I curse or talk back. I've never seen it, but it probably exists. We don't act the same way in public as in private, I'm bouncing off the walls much more in private.

[Little_Kitten_x]

Since I discovered the little girl and daddy dynamic existed, I've recognised the little girl in me and how I express this side of me in public and private. It's so obvious to me now! At work I'm very much an adult but even so my little side comes out when I just feel a bubble of naughtiness fizzing up. In private I feel freer to embrace my love of all things pink and not be so conscious of reigning in my littleness.

[arineunha]

i just act normal but i'm small in size and people always ask me my age even though i'm kind of older than a few of my friends by a few months

when i'm with my boyfriend, we like to tease each other. we try to be respectful as possible but sometimes we do end up being a little to intimate. ex; him putting me on his lap and sucking on my neck, him cooking bbq for me and putting it on my plate, him feeding me, him holding my hand, and kissing me. he's a little awkward and shy around his friends to do more than that 

[CheekyMonkey]

I'm another naturally childish sarcastic person so people don't notice when I slip into Middle Mode. Hell some unwittingly encourage it! I have one friend who works in a charity shop and gives me a heads up when cute things have come in. I have no issues with getting real snuggily with Daddy in public too or calling him Daddy in front of others. We do try and keep it under control but at the same time we believe that if this is who we are and what we do if others have an issue with our form of relationship / lifestyle then it's their issue and not ours. 

[Daddy 2021]

I personally find 'riding the line' with public display of kinky behaviour as much(or maybe even more) fun than being completely overt. When you're completely overt most people get embarrassed and try to not pay any attention.  If you keep them guessing you can keep their curiosity. 

[Princess.Ellarae]

It all depends. When our children are with us. Being little doesn't feel right. I get so wrapped up in daddy when I'm little that it would be unfair to my children. But when it's just me and daddy I act like the little princess I am.

[vahimkanseri]

Evertime, Everywhere 

[Shahd]

Well I just act myself when I'm alone in the privacy of my room and not beyond that because I live with my parents and they will not accept who I am if I ever acted myself in front of them. Same goes when I'm in public; university. That is mainly I think because the society or community where I come from do not approve of lifestyles like ddlg or BDSM or any other type of a lifestyle they are not used to. 

Usually I don't give a fuck what people think of me especially if I'm around my friends, but I don't have the finances to move out of my parents house. 

[Guest littleneedsDaddy]

when Im with daddy in public I get really little because he is the adult at the time and I just hold his hand and hide behind him. people notice how I am submissive to him in just the way I allow him to take the lead and my body language towards him but I kinda like it when people look at us weird