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[Jessmont]

Well, I am completely new to the forum but not so much to DDLG because I am familiarized with it, I've seen it a lot on tumblr and also shares some characteristics with ABDL's (Don't want to start a fight but It has some similarities) I am an ABDL, I am a little and I like all that cute stuff. I've always wanted to know some IRL people with my interest but in my country it's pretty difficult to find other ABDLs or people into DDLG.

 

I was giving up but I found hope, I found a little girl that lives in my city in another website and we've been talking for almost two months and we get along really well, we know how we look like and we built a strong confidence between us, she knows I am a little and thought I was adorable and all that.

 

After a while we began talking more seriously and she was interested in knowing more about ABDL and I was very interested in learning more from DDLG. She told me some awesome stuff about ddlg and I have to say I loved it ! It's amazing and she taught me a lot, what and what not to do and I totally agree and I want to learn much more (I think this forum will help me a lot with that)

 

Later I told her l that I was very interested in trying to become a daddy some day and be a switch. (Because of my little side) I genuinely care for being a daddy, it's adorable, I am very loyal and I love taking care of people who are important to me. She thought it would be a great idea, and told me I would be an amazing daddy.

So some time later when she told me she would stop looking for a daddy because of some problems I openly said I wold love to become her daddy some day, ugh man I still regret saying that, I mean we were close but it was too soon and I screwed up but still felt sad when she said no, it was ok because I knew it was my fault, but luckily things stayed the same. The same sort of thing happened today and I was honest but it wasn't the time.

 

Sometimes I think that with my complexion (I am like 5'3" and skinny) I would have a hard time because that's probably not what a little girl would be looking in a daddy, but I try to remain confident.

I don't know, I am sometimes very clueless and miss things out, I guess I need to remind myself no to take it fast and everything will be fine, It's just that I don't wanna loose her. Any advice for a new guy ? Thank you c:

[PastelKitten]

Hello Jessmont!

Don't try to rush anything, I think you just need the right partner and maybe the two of you just have to remain as friends.

If she said no in the first place, I don't think she'll say yes at another time!

That's just my sight of things through.

You just have to wait for the person that is right for you, it takes it's time but it'll be worth it!

And btw, it doesn't matter what you look like!

Caregivers and little are all different, no matter if they are tall, short, skinny, chubby, blonde or brunette, they all have someone out there who will love them with all their heart.

I wish you the best of luck!

-Nicole

[Jessmont]

Hello Jessmont!

Don't try to rush anything, I think you just need the right partner and maybe the two of you just have to remain as friends.

If she said no in the first place, I don't think she'll say yes at another time!

That's just my sight of things through.

You just have to wait for the person that is right for you, it takes it's time but it'll be worth it!

And btw, it doesn't matter what you look like!

Caregivers and little are all different, no matter if they are tall, short, skinny, chubby, blonde or brunette, they all have someone out there who will love them with all their heart.

I wish you the best of luck!

-Nicole

 

Well maybe you're right, she didn't actually say no, she said that we should know each other better and see were things go and take it slow and I am totally ok with that, I accept that I made a mistake by going to fast it's just that I got excited by the idea, I am sure it'll be worth waiting. Wow thank you  I was really worried about that, really appreciate your advice !