Jemima Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 I really want a stuffie and was wondering if it would be okay for me to buy my own, since I don't have a daddy. It wouldn't be as special, but might help me feel more safe as I try to figure out what being little means to me. I don't know though, is that okay?
Guest cookie_crumble_princess Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 Sure you can buy your own Stuffie! It should not be a problem. I don't have a daddy either, I also have no stuffies. I figure a lot of littles that have daddies probably buy stuffies for themselves as well, at least once in a while. I found one I really want and am saving up money to purchase her. She's a pretty dragon here Do you already have a stuffie you want to buy? 1
Guest R187 Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 Of course it's ok, get one you really like
Jemima Posted March 20, 2016 Author Report Posted March 20, 2016 Sure you can buy your own Stuffie! It should not be a problem. I don't have a daddy either, I also have no stuffies. I figure a lot of littles that have daddies probably buy stuffies for themselves as well, at least once in a while. I found one I really want and am saving up money to purchase her. She's a pretty dragon here Do you already have a stuffie you want to buy? Aww, she's so cute. I haven't found one yet, but I know I want a bunny and she has to be really REALLY soft. I've seen one I like here, but I'm going to keep looking for a bit. And thank you for the reassurance! I'm sure I would have bought one eventually anyway, but it's nice to just be reassured that it absolutely is okay.
LittleGlenn Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 It's absolutely ok to buy something for yourself. I bought a kitty stuffie a few months back and it made me very happy I also have a smaller one which I got about 2 years back from a friend who lives in England. I didn't even know about this dynamic back then though so that's kinda funny. 1
Aisling865 Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 I really want a stuffie and was wondering if it would be okay for me to buy my own, since I don't have a daddy. yes it is absolutely ok to buy yourself a stuffie. I bought mine, one of them is a giraffe named Claire and she is really soft. I found one I really want and am saving up money to purchase her. She's a pretty dragon she's adorable! do you know what you want to name her yet?
Guest itsbabygirlbean Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 You can totally buy stuffies for yourself! 2
DaddysLolita Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 Yessssssssss! Get yourself a stuffie!
LittleBratMonster Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 I buy my own stuffies. It's fun!
PennyGoodfellow Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 Aww, she's so cute. I haven't found one yet, but I know I want a bunny and she has to be really REALLY soft. I've seen one I like here, but I'm going to keep looking for a bit. And thank you for the reassurance! I'm sure I would have bought one eventually anyway, but it's nice to just be reassured that it absolutely is okay. I have that bunny from Build-A-Bear! She's so soft and you can get them stuffed anyway you want, so it's nice because you can have a squishy one or a firmer one! The inside of her ears are really really soft! Also, Target has this bunny and it is THE SOFTEST. My Meg bought it and we both cuddle it because it's so stinkin soft and it's a good size too! I highly, HIGHLY recommend this one.
Guest Princess Dusty Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 I noticed you're looking for a stuffie rabbit. I work at Walgreens and we have some super cute big ones and are super soft! Just something for you to look into to <3
cutie_patootie Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 Of course you can purchase your very own stuffed animal, there's nothing wrong with that. I don't have an enormous collection of stuffies but I do have one who is very special to me... Mr. Bun. He was given to me by my parents at age fifteen during a very difficult time in my life and he rarely leaves my side when I'm at home... and my parents understand that. I'm guessing that other littles here find it incredibly wonderful to receive a stuffie purchased especially for them by their Caregiver but I can't speak to that ie-no Mommy atm. Don't feel that you need to have a Caregiver in order to have your very own stuffed animal... go out and get any stuffie that your heart desires. Mr. Bun... http://www.jellycat.com/bashful-beige-bunny-bas3b/
Guest Pouty Kitten Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 Yes! Of course! I buy my own stuffies alll the time
Guest gypsyblue Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 Yep, what everybody else said! Its totally fine to buy yourself a stuffie! I've been buying my own for years, way before I ever knew about this dynamic and I think it'd be silly to stop now even though I DO have a Daddy. For one thing, my family would think there was something wrong with me if I suddenly stopped wanting stuffies lol.
ListenToDaddyOnly Posted March 20, 2016 Report Posted March 20, 2016 It's perfectly fine to buy yourself stuffies!! Every little should have them whether they have a daddy or not, sometimes having something to cuddle is always nice! Plus you could collect them if you wanted to!! It might be weird but I collect Pokemon stuffies cx I have my dresser filled and my shelfs covered with them! Do what makes you happy and buy whatever it is your little heart desires!! ❤
Guest cookie_crumble_princess Posted March 21, 2016 Report Posted March 21, 2016 she's adorable! do you know what you want to name her yet? I have not thought of a name for her yet. Once I have her and give her some cuddles I think I will be better able to name her.
BunBunBubbles Posted March 21, 2016 Report Posted March 21, 2016 You totally buy yourself your own plushies and dolls too. I know they make me feel safe. It has to be one I really like. Like when I pick it up and it feels like it already feels like it belongs. You also know what you like best and who knows when you will find a partner to treat you to those things.
Guest little domi Posted March 22, 2016 Report Posted March 22, 2016 Stuffies are awesome! GET tha STUFFIE!! I just bought myself a big floppy squishy cuddly elephant that I am completely happy I gots! 1
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