confused?

[BabyBoo]

So I just recently came into this DD/lg thing because a male friend, and platonic daddy, actually brought it up to me one day. I was seriously curious about it so I did some digging and started self teaching myself about it and learned that there can be daddies in the sense that they're also you're significant other or they can be completely platonic. Which I guess is something that I want? Because I'm pretty sure my boyfriend would be weirded out by it, I just want to be able to have some me time. Some time I don't have to adult so hard. I'm pretty much a stay at home mom talking care of a toddler and it can be so stressful. I just don't even know how to go about something like that. If this is inappropriate for this topic and it gets locked or deleted I completely understand. I just don't know where else to go.. /:

[LittleGlenn]

Something you want is not something we can fill in for you, But on this forum you will find a lot of information to gain more knowledge on the topic of dd/lg cg/l. You're already asking questions and I am sure you're thinking a lot about which parts you might enjoy in the dd/lg cg/l scene, so you're on the right track! Everyone deserves some time to relax and have time to do something they enjoy. As for your boyfriend and you wanting a platonic daddy it's important that you both agree on being ok with that. It would be unfair to have a relationship with someone even if it's platonic if the other didn't know about it. ( Not saying you will do that! just giving some information and my opinion on it )

[Guest NewYorkDaddy]

So I just recently came into this DD/lg thing because a male friend, and platonic daddy, actually brought it up to me one day. I was seriously curious about it so I did some digging and started self teaching myself about it and learned that there can be daddies in the sense that they're also you're significant other or they can be completely platonic. Which I guess is something that I want? Because I'm pretty sure my boyfriend would be weirded out by it, I just want to be able to have some me time. Some time I don't have to adult so hard. I'm pretty much a stay at home mom talking care of a toddler and it can be so stressful. I just don't even know how to go about something like that. If this is inappropriate for this topic and it gets locked or deleted I completely understand. I just don't know where else to go.. /:

I don't recommend having another male fill that daddy role. In my opinion this situation can lead to jealousy and emotional infidelity. If you want to reduce stress and you think being in little space is a good idea ; I suggest you communicate with your boyfriend. He is the one you need to share yourself with.

[Masteratm]

I completely agree with NewYorkDaddy, its also runs the risk that if you hide it that your boyfriend, he could take it as cheating if he found out. Its also hard to be a Daddy and not care for or have some feelings to the person. Well thats me anyway. 

[Guest Elencha]

Maybe try getting a platonic Mommy? In my experience there are a good number of women who fill that role with younger female friends naturally and take a lot of stress off the younger girl because it allows her not to have to "adult so hard" if only sometimes. I know I've done this for many of my friends without even thinking about it, and I don't consider myself even the least bit Domme-y and I'm not gay. I just tend to nurture people I see as kids. I think it's an instinct for most women, to varying degrees of course. Even if it isn't an instinct, it is pretty common.