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Thank you Elencha! I like you-you're real and a breath of fresh air! I know you are right about things. My ex actually asked if we could be friends. I told him I didn't think so. I need to heal and take care of me.
Guest Elencha
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Why, thank you! I try to be more helpful than comforting, if that makes any sense.  :p Not that being comforted isn't important, just that sometimes, a person needs truth more than soft words. And the truth brings it's own sort of comfort. So, yeah, heal and take care of you. Let him stew. 

 

For the record, littleinhiding, most, if not all, of that applies to you, too. How can he possibly use it against you? You aren't committing any crimes. When my uncle comes to visit and I'n kicking around in my onesie, he laughs and takes out my trash like I dang well asked him to. And washes his hands before he goes into my refrigerator, too. I guess, because I barely think of this 'lifestyle', if you will, as a kink, I've never thought to act like it was something I was afraid of people finding out, hence, people just accept it as part of the quirkiness that is me. I  suppose it probably helps that I never knew it was a kink.  :p If anyone finds it out about you, what are they really gonna do? Make fun of you? And then what? Nothing. That's what. They can't stop you from eating or sleeping or cuddling your stuffies or anything else. But, I'm more warrior princess than a lot of littles, so maybe this is easier for me than some others.

Guest buddhagirl
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Why, thank you! I try to be more helpful than comforting, if that makes any sense.  :p Not that being comforted isn't important, just that sometimes, a person needs truth more than soft words. And the truth brings it's own sort of comfort. So, yeah, heal and take care of you. Let him stew. 

 

For the record, littleinhiding, most, if not all, of that applies to you, too. How can he possibly use it against you? You aren't committing any crimes. When my uncle comes to visit and I'n kicking around in my onesie, he laughs and takes out my trash like I dang well asked him to. And washes his hands before he goes into my refrigerator, too. I guess, because I barely think of this 'lifestyle', if you will, as a kink, I've never thought to act like it was something I was afraid of people finding out, hence, people just accept it as part of the quirkiness that is me. I  suppose it probably helps that I never knew it was a kink.  :p If anyone finds it out about you, what are they really gonna do? Make fun of you? And then what? Nothing. That's what. They can't stop you from eating or sleeping or cuddling your stuffies or anything else. But, I'm more warrior princess than a lot of littles, so maybe this is easier for me than some others.

This and you are awesome!

Guest Elencha
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Thanks, Buddhagirl!  :D  Did I ever tell you, my family called me Buddha until I was like 7 years old? I was born round and golden.

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Take heart that you're not alone. I'm 38 and have only recently begun to explore the little part of me that I've always known was there, I just didn't have a name for it or that a daddy could be the other half of me. It is a big discovery that I think takes time to process and understand what it means to me but I don't think age is any barrier.

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